@PeroK
Case 1 => Force applied at the center
I apply a force at the CoM of the pen. The impulse lasts about 1 second and the pen goes off in a straight line with no spin at all.
Case 2 => Force at tip
I'm assuming that Newton's laws can be applied to any object with any shape or size and at any location.
I might apply the same force in this case but the impulse time will be short. The reason is my finger's direction will be a straight line and the pen will rotate and eventually miss my finger in about half of a second or maybe even less. If I apply F=dP/dt here I can easily see that in this case the pen's final velocity is going to be very low because the impulse time was very less compared to the first case.
I also exerted a variable torque in this case and due to that torque the pen will have a spin as well. Variable because of changing angle.
I did this experiment on a table and also noticed that the closer you nudge to the CoM the more linear momentum and the less angular momentum you give. The reason is because the closer you are the more impulse time you get and so you transfer more linear momentum. While the torque becomes less.
So basically both cases aren't identical at all and due to that my first question becomes meaningless.
Please correct me wherever I am wrong. Thanks