As a filament spends time at high temperature ('white hot') the surface slowly boils away and coats the inside of the glass envelope. Impurities and thermal cycling can affect the strength and cause local hotspots which will be where the filament finally starts to 'burn out'. Rapid heating due to the current surge can cause expansion and stress and that's when they tend to go. Your delightful young relative could be partly to blame but ten years is a good innings for a bulb. Don't write him out of your Will.
When I played with light switches as a kid I was told "You'll fuse the lights." It sometimes blew a fuse after a few rapid doses of surge current. Repairing a wired fuse was (rightly) beyond a lot of people in those days; life is much easier now, with a reset button.
Despite the claims of longevity for early LEDs, I used to find they just didn't last very long. They are a lot better these days but heat can still affect them (built with a lot of plastic).
Ordinary filament bulbs are not officially available in UK any more.