Thanks Chalnoth for clarifying me on that, but ( always one) being coherent with my rebel mind, all this today explanations can only be rational under standard knowledge and perception of today scientific minds, so what if (another question):
Gravity is the main force to generate atoms aggregation like you described and knowing that matter don´t have known symmetry (two different stable poles) at least on our side of universe, why matter can´t be understood as a gravity conductor, immerse in a gravitational vectorial field, somewhere and somehow generated ?
Thesis analogy: If you can establish a let us say magnetic north and south pole planes (infinite and distant enough) and you have two pieces (let us say spherical) one much bigger than the other and closer enough among them (regarding to pole planes distance) of a ferromagnetic material, and you start analyze magnetic forces, you will find it equations and behavior, including force´s lines, like matter immerse in a supposed gravitational field, including orbits, stability and so on…
I know that seems absurd by let us make a mind exercise.
This idea could justify, as well as yours (current), atoms aggregation ?