I will answer this, and whether or not you will understand is not my place to judge, but I am a plasma scientist and I work with nuclear fusion so here is the simplest way I can explain. In helium 4 the neutrons are not the only particles exerting force, like strong interaction and gravitation. The protons are interacting with these as well, and as strong interaction is vastly more powerful than electromagnetic force the particles will hold stable. dineutrons ARE a theoretical particle used in the nuclear reactions with exotic nuclei. However there could be no binding force and the interactions could not conceivably make them fuse. I would also like to point out this is not fusion, as it is not a system in itself. It is not a nuclei therefor isn't the fusion of two nuclei.
D-T reactions are the most energy efficient because the massive leap down in the mass of the sum of the parts. Also it is interesting to note that it is not the Helium after that reaction ejecting a neutron, but rather the particle going into alpha decay, ejecting Helium 4 with 3.5 MeV and the neutron goes whizzing off with a massive 14.1 MeV.
For your basic knowledge I would recommend researching the basic force interactions as well as the generations of matter and a bit on nuclear fusion.
And Vanadium 50, I will simply state that firstly your original post on this thread had absolutely nothing to do with his question. You also masquerade under the false impression that you are helping when you give no constructive help nor is there ANY reason for you to post your comment directed at him on this thread when it pertains to many threads, when you could have simply mailed it you chose instead to make him look like he didn't know anything on the topic on a public thread. You also have no right to determine what someone else's best is. Blatant attack on a question that could be simply answered is never justified, questions are what makes this community thrive as scientists, and doing such as this can completely turn someone off to science, and it is not tolerated in the scientific community.
And lastly to comment on the two proton configuration that is because of the spin-spin interaction and it is not fundamentally wrong, it is a theoretical particle that would exist if the strong interaction were two percent stronger.
Hope I could be of assistance