MeJennifer said:
Well, I guess I am totally wrong about it but my "I guess novice" understanding is that the force that we feel when we sit in our chair is NOT gravity, but actually the electro-magnetic force that stops us from traveling on our geodesic. So either I am completely wrong, or something is explained to people here completely wrong.
I wouldn't say that this is totally wrong.
The fact that you are not following a geodesic means that you must feel those electromagnetic forces.
If you didn't feel them, if you were acted on by no external forces, you would be following a geodesic.
Those forces that you feel are intimately realted to the fact that your 4-acceleration is non-zero.
There isn't any big conflict here. IMO.
Also in my novice understanding when I hear that some fields shows a redshift it implies that space-time is curved there. Where else would it come from. And furthermore, and it seems that you but others disagree, in my limited understanding, I guess, is it the case that mass curves space-time.
What do you mean by "curved"? Can you express it in terms of the behavior of the metric coefficients?
Some pepole say, loosely speaking, that having the metric coefficents vary at all is sufficient for there to be "curvature". This defintion of curvature is not very formal, and dependent on the coordinate system used. It is usually used to point out that in the presence of any gravitational field (including the pseudo-gravitational field inside a rocket) that the metric coefficients must vary.
Other people say that one must have a non-zero curvature tensor for space-time to be curved. This defintion of curvature is more formal, but does NOT depend on the coordinate system used.
This is a real conflict, but it is more in the nature of semantics - about what the loose, popularly defined term "curvature" really means. Does "curvature" really mean the Riemann curvature tensor, or is it some other, fuzzier, idea, like varying metric coefficients?
I will wait for pmb_phy to provide an explanation since he is making all those statements that confuse the whole thing even more (e.g. space-time is flat, no time dilation, but nevertheless redshifted.).
Feel free. This issue comes up a lot when Pete is around, and not so often when he is not.
I think that the resulting discussions can be useful to people who already know a lot about relativity, but are not so useful to those struggling to understand it, I suspect it totally blows them away :-(.
Unfortunately I don't know what to do about that - I really am trying to explain as simply as I can what all the fuss is about.
As far as what Einstein thought or did not think, I personally don't really care that much. A lot of people have an "Einstein" fetish, but to me, any physical insight is valuable, even if Einstein wasn't the one who happened to think of it. And in the years since Einstein first published GR, there have beena LOT of contributions to the field.