Zwarmapapa said:
Let me start of with this first: I'm not a physicist, I'm a software engineer, so my knowledge about this is pretty much nihil.
Anyway, my question is, why is it assumed that matter causes gravity? Is there any proof or logic behind it?
There are a few "cultural lessons" that need to be taught here.
In physics, and in science in general, nothing is accepted until there is a convincing set of
empirical evidence! This is important for you to understand because you seem to think that "matter causes gravity" is an "assumption" in physics! This is FALSE!
We do not build spacecraft s, spend billions of dollars, or risk the lives of people, based on an assumption! We know it well enough to make it work! That's a very important aspect that somehow has eluded you.
What if matter and gravity are two separate things that both attract each other?
Yes, so what IF they are two separate things that both attract each other? This is where you need to learn a bit how to think like a scientist. If you have a hypothesis, then ask yourself "If this is true, then..." In other words, you need to carry it out and figure out the consequences of that hypothesis. THEN, compare it with what we have already observed. Do they match? Do they agree qualitatively and quantitatively?
Unfortunately, in your case, you ask if something is true, but then expect the rest of us to do the work for you, i.e. to figure out the consequences if it were true, and to either verify or falsify them. This is lazy because you are simply throwing out stuff and expect the rest of us to do the hard, tedious, dirty work for you. The burden here is on YOU to show argument on why you think your idea is worth thinking about, which means you need to back it up with solid evidence. If you can't, then you have zero basis on bringing it up because you might as well say that your idea came to you in a dream with no rational reason for it.
The way it works in science (and the way *I* believe it should work elsewhere in society) is that the person who proposes something must be the one who provides the necessary evidence to argue for its validity. You simply cannot throw something out and expect the rest of us to falsify it.
Zz.