i. Yes a know a bit how Einsteins field equations work, but I will not be able to study its derivations and so on until I get into grad-school, I am still undergraduate and we have still only got the forumulas and learn how to use them, not to derive them.
ii. The general theory of gravity is called many things, like Einsteins general theory of relativity and so forth.
If you don't have any idea what this is, then I am stunned how you still want to argue with me about what gravity is and how it works. The language of physics is math, therefore one can not understand physics correct by using every day life thinking and non-mathematical reasoning.
iii. I ve seen many people who have the missconception that the neutron is the only source of gravity in atoms.
iv. I have quite good knowledge about the English language, if I say "All mass generates gravity" then I of course mean that neutrons, which has mass, is generating gravity. Then one can use his/hers logic to draw the conclusion that massive objects which are not neutrons also generates gravity.
v. I think its boring that people who aren't students of physics, or working physicists, can judge wheater a person have understand something or not. As cristo said, this is not the appropiate place where to study general theory of gravity (I can give you a study plan and book references if you want to learn it, or recommend a college/university), but we (who are physicists) can answer questions about gravity in a short and quite understandable way (that is of course something subjective).
The main question was "what is the difference between gravity and electro magnetic force"? Then some missconceptions where brougth up (the ones I mentioned earlier), and those I gave short comments on.