Let me try, OP please read this:
The diode, normally does not allow current flow through it. It is across the COIL.
Imagine this, Current through that coil, produces a magnetic field.
Once power is REMOVED from that coil, the field collapses. As it collapses, it induces a voltage into the coil, this voltage causes current to flow back through the circuit due to lenz' law!
If the diode were not there to short the ends of the coil, current would back feed to the transistor.
THE DIODE IS THERE TO CARRY COLLAPSING FIELD CURRENT OF THE COIL BACK TO THE OTHER END OF THE COIL, RATHER THAN LETTING IT FEED THROUGH THE CIRCUIT!
Have you ever opened a switch feeding a relay coil? It sparks almost every time. Put a diode in parallel with your coil? Doesn't happen
My source, I work as an automotive electrician on mining equipment, and I work with this daily, so I know it is correct. Once power is removed from a coil, a voltage is induced back into the coil, as now the field collapses and crosses it.
Please read and understand this as well... The voltage that is induced when DC is removed, is EXACTLY the same as inductive reactance in a AC circuit!
With DC the field is static until power is removed, then voltage is applied against the circuit, in an AC circuit, the field is expanding and collapsing all the time, therefore a constant voltage is applied against the circuit, since this voltage opposition does not dissipate energy as heat, rather store energy in a magnetic field, we call it reactance.
The diode is to dissipate the current that flows due to the voltage that is induced in the coil when power is removed or lost.