Discharging large capacitors, especially those over 10,000μF, should be done safely using a resistive load rather than the screwdriver method, which can be dangerous and cause damage. A resistor around 4.7k Ohms and 1/4 Watt is ideal for a controlled discharge, preventing large sparks and terminal corrosion. It's crucial to consider the capacitor type, voltage, internal resistance, and your own knowledge of electronics before attempting to discharge. Capacitors can retain charge in their dielectric, so they may not fully discharge even after a short period. Using a properly designed circuit with a bleeder resistor is recommended for safety and efficiency.