How does it feel to kiss someone?

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Kissing evokes a wide range of feelings and experiences, varying significantly based on the person being kissed and the context. Many participants shared personal anecdotes, highlighting that kissing a romantic partner feels vastly different from kissing family members. The sensations can range from tender and intimate to awkward or unpleasant, depending on the technique and chemistry between the individuals involved. Some described kissing as a form of communication, emphasizing the emotional connection and the importance of mutual respect during the act. There were humorous observations about poor kissing techniques, such as excessive drooling or overly aggressive tongue use, which can detract from the experience. The discussion also touched on the challenges of articulating the nuances of kissing to someone who has never experienced it, noting that the physical sensations and emotional responses are often difficult to convey. Ultimately, kissing is portrayed as a complex interplay of environment, emotions, and personal chemistry, making each experience unique.
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How does it feel to kiss someone?
 
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I got mono from my first kiss, so I suppose achy and tired.
 
I'm kissing my wife right now. It feels like this.
 
Urvabara said:
How does it feel to kiss someone?
It depends on whom is being kissed.

Kissing one's spouse or girlfriend is quite a bit different that kissing one's mother, aunt or grandmother. :biggrin: Or at least I hope so. :smile:
 
Some things cannot be described well with words.
 
The way your mouth feels in your lovers kiss
Like a pretty bird on a breeze or water to a fish

Dave Matthews...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ew8hmVIGKcM
 
Feels overrated.
 
Pengwuino said:
Feels overrated.

Singles Awareness day getting you down?
 
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Feels like victory.
 
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MotoH said:
Singles Awareness day getting you down?

No, it's overrated. Hollywood/girls are full of it. If you can, try to get some work done while you're doing it.
 
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zoobyshoe said:
Feels like victory.

You're thinking about what comes after.
 
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I love being free and feel sorry for all suckers who had to buy 2000$ chocolates for their girlfriends :D
 
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rootX said:
I love being free and feel sorry for all suckers who had to buy 2000$ chocolates for their girlfriends :D

They're $2.99 at walmart.

Then again that doesn't get you too far along with keeping a gf.
 
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Pengwuino said:
You're thinking about what comes after.
Yeah, and after you're done with what comes after, all you have is the smell of napalm in the morning.
 
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are you trying to get ahead at work and its your boss?
 
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zoobyshoe said:
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Feels like victory.
without the smell of napalm. That would be a show stopper! :smile:
 
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Astronuc said:
without the smell of napalm. That would be a show stopper! :smile:

i think that captian would list it under "turn ons" though :D
 
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Kissing after dinner, or eating in general is a bad idea. Quite frankly eating food that was in someone elses mouth is a bad idea.
 
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Depends on who you are kissing, I've had the poppers and smackers and one guy that drooled so much into my mouth that it gagged me and I needed a towel to wipe myself off from his drool overflow, he was an attractive med student too. Then there are the guys that try to give you a tonsilectomy, the tooth lickers, the tongue swabbers. Then on the other end, the clenched teeth kissers that think kissing is rubbing lips together.
 
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MotoH said:
Kissing after dinner, or eating in general is a bad idea. Quite frankly eating food that was in someone elses mouth is a bad idea.
Well - at least wait until after the palate cleanser (e.g., lime sherbert).

Evo said:
Depends on who you are kissing, I've had the poppers and smackers and one guy that drooled so much into my mouth that it gagged me and I needed a towel to wipe myself off from his drool overflow, he was an attractive med student too. Then there are the guys that try to give you a tonsilectomy, the tooth lickers, the tongue swabbers.
On first dates?! Eeeewwwww. I can't imagine one would go on a second date with such guys. :rolleyes:
 
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Evo said:
Depends on who you are kissing, I've had the poppers and smackers and one guy that drooled so much into my mouth that it gagged me and I needed a towel to wipe myself off from his drool overflow, he was an attractive med student too. Then there are the guys that try to give you a tonsilectomy, the tooth lickers, the tongue swabbers. Then on the other end, the clenched teeth kissers that think kissing is rubbing lips together.

Lol, that made me gag and laugh at the same time...
 
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Evo said:
Depends on who you are kissing, I've had the poppers and smackers and one guy that drooled so much into my mouth that it gagged me and I needed a towel to wipe myself off from his drool overflow, he was an attractive med student too. Then there are the guys that try to give you a tonsilectomy, the tooth lickers, the tongue swabbers. Then on the other end, the clenched teeth kissers that think kissing is rubbing lips together.

It's my experience that girls have more complaints about guys than guys have about girls. I think only about 10% of the girls I've kissed did anything annoying. I surmise girls are naturally better kissers.

Regardless, trying to describe what it's like to kiss a good kisser to someone who's never kissed anyone strikes me as incredibly difficult. Your lips are jam-packed with nerve endings and the experience of slowly exploring a girl's delicious lips and mouth with your own hypersensitive lips and tongue would require a Proustian elaboration of details of textures and tastes and smells that still might only mean something to someone who'd done it themselves, and still not end up communicating what it's like to someone who hadn't.
 
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Evo said:
and one guy that drooled so much into my mouth that it gagged me and I needed a towel to wipe myself off from his drool overflow

"Drool Overflow" would be a great name for a band.
 
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zoobyshoe said:
It's my experience that girls have more complaints about guys than guys have about girls. I think only about 10% of the girls I've kissed did anything annoying. I surmise girls are naturally better kissers.

A significant number of the women I have kissed have been rather poor or unimpressive kissers. Its not exactly something I tend to go around talking about though and guy talk about women that they have "hooked up" with tends to be light on kissing details in general.
 
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zoobyshoe said:
Yeah, and after you're done with what comes after, all you have is the smell of napalm in the morning.
A real masochist let's his girlfriend use his razor to shave her legs.

Kissing isn't the same every time or with every person. It can be a quick peck on the lips like saying see you later. It can be a battle of teeth and tongue and breath like fighting dogs. Sometimes it is like a funny joke with flushed faces. Other times it's lips pressed together forcefully like tectonic plates over molten earth. Still other times it's like waterbugs skimming across the surface of a quiet lake.

Have fun learning to communicate.
 
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I would say that kissing is one of the best things ever, It makes you feel warm and happy.
 
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I'm with Huck and Astronuc one this one. There are many types of kisses which ultimately depend on the mood and/or people involved; however, kissing can also set the mood. :biggrin:

One form of kissing can be partly described as a sensual, meet-you-half-way form of communication, or a gentle dance/massage between two mouths. In my experience, it invokes feelings of connection, intimacy, affection, tenderness, and pleasure. Being respectful of the other person's space (no tonsil-hockey!) is a good rule of thumb. :smile:
 
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Dembadon said:
no tonsil-hockey!

Craziness! :wink:
 
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Urvabara said:
How does it feel to kiss someone?

A first sensual kiss, when newly in love, is like diving into a mountain of whipped creme.

It's just as sureal, and is the closest thing to heaven on earth.
 
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Huckleberry said:
A real masochist let's his girlfriend use his razor to shave her legs.

Kissing isn't the same every time or with every person. It can be a quick peck on the lips like saying see you later. It can be a battle of teeth and tongue and breath like fighting dogs. Sometimes it is like a funny joke with flushed faces. Other times it's lips pressed together forcefully like tectonic plates over molten earth. Still other times it's like waterbugs skimming across the surface of a quiet lake.

Have fun learning to communicate.

Don't you try and ruin kissing chicks for me. Do I want to think about water bugs whilst swapping spit with a girl? No I do not. Nor do I want to think of dry humping as tectonic plates!

Keep the science out of hooking up man.
 
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TheStatutoryApe said:
A significant number of the women I have kissed have been rather poor or unimpressive kissers. Its not exactly something I tend to go around talking about though and guy talk about women that they have "hooked up" with tends to be light on kissing details in general.

This could well be it. Guys are not as interested in sharing kissing ratings as girls are.
 
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elect_eng said:
A first sensual kiss, when newly in love, is like diving into a mountain of whipped creme.

It's just as sureal, and is the closest thing to heaven on earth.

I'm allergic whipped cream : P

it's just a motion for me, nothing special.
 
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ƒ(x) said:
I'm allergic whipped cream : P

it's just a motion for me, nothing special.

My condolences. Two of life's joys denied to you. Hopefully, there are others to compensate. :smile:
 
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elect_eng said:
My condolences. Two of life's joys denied to you. Hopefully, there are others to compensate. :smile:

Haha there are
 
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Vanadium 50 said:
"Drool Overflow" would be a great name for a band.
It has been trademarked by the drummer's union. Sorry.
 
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Evo said:
Depends on who you are kissing, I've had the poppers and smackers and one guy that drooled so much into my mouth that it gagged me and I needed a towel to wipe myself off from his drool overflow, he was an attractive med student too. Then there are the guys that try to give you a tonsilectomy, the tooth lickers, the tongue swabbers. Then on the other end, the clenched teeth kissers that think kissing is rubbing lips together.
I sometimes go crazy with my tongue when it's a new girl that I don't really care for or know I'm not going back to again. Basically I'm trying to get as much out of the experience in the shortened time limit :biggrin:

zoobyshoe said:
It's my experience that girls have more complaints about guys than guys have about girls. I think only about 10% of the girls I've kissed did anything annoying. I surmise girls are naturally better kissers.
I agree. I've picked up on a few awkward kissers, but I've never really complained about these girls. This too would account for only about 10% of total kisses like your estimate.

The most annoying would have to have been this one girl that had the smallest and "sharpest" tongue I've ever had the displeasure of having jabbing into my own.
And then the most disgusting kiss was on the other side of the spectrum - (don't accuse me of being racist or stereotypical, just accept my simplistic description) I've only ever made out with one black girl so far and my experience was anything but satisfying. She had the fattest tongue and it was much too soft. I couldn't get around it because of its shear size. It creeped me out... But I only really had an issue with the day after... else, why would I keep going back there for over an hour?

Urvabara you should try kissing for yourself. First-hand experience will do you much better than any detailed description ever will.
 
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kiss- mentally nothing special. when you do it often it becomes something usual. this is just next step of relationship with a girl. and ofc nice feeling./
 
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Evo said:
Depends on who you are kissing, I've had the poppers and smackers and one guy that drooled so much into my mouth that it gagged me and I needed a towel to wipe myself off from his drool overflow, he was an attractive med student too. Then there are the guys that try to give you a tonsilectomy, the tooth lickers, the tongue swabbers. Then on the other end, the clenched teeth kissers that think kissing is rubbing lips together.


I'm never kissing again for the rest of my life.




zoobyshoe said:
Regardless, trying to describe what it's like to kiss a good kisser to someone who's never kissed anyone strikes me as incredibly difficult. Your lips are jam-packed with nerve endings and the experience of slowly exploring a girl's delicious lips and mouth with your own hypersensitive lips and tongue would require a Proustian elaboration of details of textures and tastes and smells that still might only mean something to someone who'd done it themselves, and still not end up communicating what it's like to someone who hadn't.


Oh, wait a minute; yes, I will.
 
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I'm just testing to see if my account can post - I've been having trouble.
 
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for me it depends on the three things the environment, the emotions behind the kiss, and the other person.

environment: your mom's house, probably going to be a quick kiss to your girl you don't want to show off in front of her that's just crude and not cool.
party: she's your girl, you want to be show off how lucky you are maybe a long slow one with fun stuff like a quick nip at the end ;D
different place different kind see what I'm getting at?

emotions: behind the kiss, pretty obvious kissing someone you love, is a lot different then getting a kiss from your mom or grandma. but like saying goodbye in the morning and giving them a kiss is a lot different then coming home to that person and seeing them for the first time that day... follow?

the other person: the first kiss, kinda like a first date sometimes you'll have chemistry and maybe both be... hungry... lol maybe it might just be odd. haha. like the drooler mentioned in a previous post. some people want lots of tongue some don't, giving someone a kiss that makes them want to continue and just be together longer is an important thing to want. notice what they react to and how they react.


the things i try to do (as well): i try to control my body language and make it so that my body moves with her's and we are close together. (move your body with hers in a soft kiss, in a harder kiss that might go to the bed room, grinding might be a more appropriate term.)

place your hands, don't be to sleezy and try to feel her up, just hold her close one hand in the small of her back is always a good idea...

things up to you, tongue, nibbling kinda softly on their lower lip as you pull away(just let's them know you want to keep going xD,) just do what's natural... gots it?

rotfl questions?
 

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