FallenApple said:
So when the mass is in orbit, the weight is not pressing down on the string. These moments would have the string pulling.
But as it slows, the weight will matter since the bob would fall into the string, making it start to buckle, and the string will be pushing here not pulling. But this is where the string goes slack?
I think you have got it, but you seem to be making this more complicated than it need be. Perhaps think first about a bob moving in a horizontal circle at the end of a string.
1) There is tension in the string because at all times the bob wants to move off in a straight line, and the string prevents it.
2) If you add an external centripetal force to the bob, the tension in the string will reduce, because now the external force is providing some of the force needed to stop the bob moving off.
3) If the external force equals the original tension in the string, then the bob will continue in its circular path but there will be no tension in the string.
4) If, however, the external force exceeds the original tension, then the bob will move inwards from its original path and the string will, of course, go slack.
For a vertical circle, with gravity as the external force, the situation is similar, except the speed of the bob is constantly changing, so the centripetal force required is changing. And, of course, below the horizontal gravity acts centrifugally (this means "away from the centre") thus increasing the tension in the string. Above the horizontal, you have a gravitational force acting increasingly centripetally and a slowing of the bob, which together reduce the required tension in the string. If the bob has insufficient speed, then gravity pushes the bob inwards, out of its circluar path, and the string goes slack.