I don't know if this will help, but I found it useful to get my head around this problem.
Let’s say twin A and twin B are on earth, aged say 40. Twin B gets in his rocket ship and sets off for a round trip to the stars at some relativistic speed. Also, let’s say that B is traveling fast enough so A ages 40 years while B ages 10.
Imagine both twins have really powerful cameras that can see each other for the duration of B's round trip. They also keep their cameras recoding constantly. However, the twins don't actually see each other during the trip.
After 10 years, B turns around and returns to his twin, so 20 years have past for B for the round trip. When he gets back he finds that his brother died 40 years ago at age 80, but B is only 60. So 80 years have past where A was, but only 20 for B.
What happened?
B finds A's camera and sets both of them to watch together. What would he see? Oddly when he plays both videos back together at super fast forward speeds, for the first 10 years A's video shows B aging less and B's video shows A aging less at the same rate!
Then, after a time index of 10 years (When B turned around) B's camera showed something strange happen, A rapidly starts to age (It may happen instantaneously, I am not sure.) and he sees his twin die of old age, 80 years old. On A's camera he doesn't see this same effect for himself.
So the point is that as twins are traveling wrt to each other, they will both see each other age slower, which is an effect of traveling through space time relative to someone else. It acts like a two-way time mask, which makes us see time in another frame pass at a slower rate and vise-versa.
However, when B breaks that symmetry of them both moving wrt to each other by turning around, common sense catches up and we get to see what has really been going on. And that is that A was indeed aging faster than B