friend said:
Yes, I get it, the various alternatives are in superposition. But you have to be able to say what is in superposition. Yet take the diagram in post #6, here. We have 6 quarks and 8 gluons.
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This would mean there are not enough types of gluons for every quark to interact with every other quark. I could use some help with this. Much appreciated. Thanks.
Quarks carry one of three possible color charges. (Antiquarks carry them with opposite sign, usually called "antigreen" etc).
Gluons, roughly speaking, carry a pair of color charges, one positive and one negative: for example, "green+antired".
A "green" quark can emit any "green+anti<COLOR>" gluon, changing its color charge from "green" to "<COLOR>".
A "green" quark can absorb any "<COLOR>+antigreen" gluon, changing its color charge from "green" to "<COLOR>".
In both cases, balance of charges is conserved.
The finer point here is that gluons don't _really_ have a pair of "color-anticolor". If they'd do so, there would be nine of them. The gauge symmetry would be U(3). And this would make "red+green+blue" set of quarks emit gluons, which is not observed.
To make theory consistent with observations, gauge symmetry should be SU(3), and there should be eight gluons, with much less intuitive charges. See here:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gluon#Eight_gluon_colors