I am a loser loser loser loser loser

[Cyrus]

I still can't get over the fact that he called her every 15 mins for 5 hours straight.

ooooooohhhhh dear.

 

[Renge Ishyo]

Don't worry crazy oatme...err, tosser. Chin up, and I hope you do better next time. At least now you know about the repeated calls thing (and knowing is half the battle!).

 

[Crazy Tosser]

I don't think it was every 15 minutes.
I mean, I am a creep, but I am not that much of a creep
I called her occasionally, but 1-3 times in a row each. So it probably was more like 15 calls total. But it seemed like 4 times an hour.

Now, get over it and let it die.

 

[tchitt]

lol I like your honesty. I hope you don't mistake my comments for attacks on you personally... I'm just discussing the whole situation. I'm not saying you're the male equivalent of a nasty fat chick by any means because I don't know.

 

[Cyrus]

In all seriousness CT, if you're calling her this much, you're not mature enough to date anyone yet.


I would hold off on trying again for a few years.

Go join some clubs or make some friends and learn basic interaction skills with other human beings. Then try again later on in life.


As it stands right now, you're not ready.

 

[Renge Ishyo]

C'mon Cyrus, they are *both* kids. They'll go through these types of things and then hopefully level out somewhere in their twenties.

And it's not unsual for crazy oatman to be bitter and upset for a few days until his emotions level out, I mean technically we were all giving advice to crazy tosser trying to get him hitched, which means this girl dumped ALL of us. I'm never going to speak to her again either! *hmph*

 

[Cyrus]

I have no idea how old he is. I assume he was in college, as this is an adult forum. Considering he avoided telling his age, I have no idea how old he is anymore. But based on his posts, I suspect you're right.

I never gave him advice to get him hitched. I don't think anyone else has either. She dumped all of us? Err, okay...

 

[Crazy Tosser]

Talking about maturity, Renge Ishyo and Cyrus, the annoyance and arrogance meters of your posts are just going wild. If you want to have further third-person discussion with each other about me and who I am without knowing me at all, would you please continue it through private messages? It might surprise you, but I can actually read it when you discuss me in a public thread. Thank you all for not further bumping this thread up.

~Tosser

 

[Cyrus]

You can't answer how old you are? It's a simple question. The advice you seek is vastly different if you are 16 or if you are 26.

We're well aware others can read what were saying. You made a public thread about this. You can thank yourself.

You were asked your age twice now, and you won't answer. Therefore, we have to guess at it. Don't confuse this as 'making assumptions about you and we don't even know you'.


I think your probably around 16, you got a girl to give you her phone number, you got way, way too excited and you called her up non-stop and scared her away. Oh well, don't worry about it. You're young and still learning. Take my advice and find someone you can talk to about girls. Your dad, friends, an uncle. If you know any girls, they would be the best to talk to for advice. Try talking to your mom or sisters.

But you shouldn't be going to an internet physics forum for this kind of information.

 

[Renge Ishyo]

Tosser, would it really make much of a difference if you were a 15 year old or if you were a 30 year old who behaved like a 15 year old? Don't take any of this personally guy, most of this discussion is just to amuse ourselves anyways.

 

[BobG]

For instance, my sister once gave a guy her phone number and did this same thing to him. After he left his messages, she called over my other sister and myself to listen to "how much of a creep he is" and make fun of his phone messages (she called him "oatmeal man" because in one message the poor guy said he just woke up and was eating his oatmeal and asked for her to call back, which she never did). We aren't talking about behavior patterns of mature women here...we are talking about *girls*. And they can be cruel (believe it or not).

omg! Like, she dissed John Prine?! She's so, like, totally lame!

I woke up this morning
Things were lookin' bad.
It seemed like total silence
Was the onliest friend I had.
A bowl of oatmeal tried to stare me down...
and won...

 

[Pyrrhus]

...The only way to find out to put yourself out there. Just remember there's other fish in the sea, and you'll never be able to move on to them if you get hung up at this stage. You have to go get rejected or accepted so you can move on to the next step and be progressive about it and allow yourself to develop emotionally.

I didn't bother to read all the advice. This advice right here. It's the "magic pill", learn it and go with it.