If I am understanding your description correctly, the resulting arching curve is flat underneath the fingers and then bugles upwards in the center. If this is correct, then the curve is definitely not a parabola.
I strongly suspect it is a very complicated curve that may involve trigonometric and/or exponential factors. Even worse still, if the ends are pushed sufficiently close, I believe the curve stops being a function as is balloons out past where the fingers are ( much like a light bulb shape or the letter \Omega).
Am I way off base here?
--Elucidus