Is It Normal to Be 18 and Never Had a Girlfriend?

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The discussion revolves around the experiences and feelings of an 18-year-old who has never had a girlfriend and is questioning whether they are "doomed" because of it. Participants emphasize that being single at this age is not unusual and that there is no rush to enter a relationship. They suggest that focusing on personal growth and building friendships, particularly with women, can create opportunities for future romantic relationships without the pressure of dating. The conversation highlights the idea that many teenage relationships are often immature and fleeting, and that waiting for the right person can be more beneficial than pursuing superficial connections. Some participants argue against the notion of avoiding flirting altogether, advocating instead for open and honest communication about feelings. Overall, the consensus is that there is no need to worry about being single at a young age, and that meaningful relationships often develop naturally over time.
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OP: It could be worse. I'm 24 and have never had a girlfriend, no biggie. I've spent way too many years obsessing over that, huge source of embarrassment, but its not worth it. Formerly a self-esteem problem(which culminated with 2-3 years of borderline unhealthy work-out habits), I'm the culprit because I'd much rather remain single than have single girl I know. I have become a bit picky which doesn't help, but I'll be damned if I have to share my time with someone who is boring just for the sake of some female company.

I know how infatuations feel, but in time you'll barely be remembering said person's name after you get rejected, so please do NOT let the emotions get to you. Employ all your efforts to your (healthy) hobbies, academics, etc. and avoid absolutely ALL dating advice or pickup lines, save yourself the embarrassment!
 
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You should amend that last one to be "avoid absolutely all dating advice from people who have never had a girlfriend."
 
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inception7 said:
Another pitiful thread, but I'll go ahead and mention this.

I'm 18, turning 19 soon...and I have been single so far! To be honest, I've never been in any particular rush to have a girlfriend.

I'm somewhat of a spontaneous person, waiting for love to simply happen. I don't go and pursue it, although it seems I may have to now...

Am I doomed?


just focus on Jesus and things will fall into place.
 
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anthrosoc said:
just focus on Jesus and things will fall into place.
Well, Jesus was a guy... and Lavabug has stated he likes girls ... so I'm sayin' this is contraindicated...
 
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Yeah, that would be kind of gay. And you know how Jesus feels about the gays.
 

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