Fredrik, I understand the difference between proper and coordinate time. There is no 'deterioration' involved in my envisaging what you have said as a curvature in spacetime. You clearly mention 'the time measured by a clock is the proper time of the curve in spacetime that represents the clock's motion'. Now how is that different than saying that time measures a curve in spacetime? It measures the curve in spacetime that represents the clock's motion, but nevertheless it measures a curve in spacetime. No deterioration of any sort; rather, a generalization of a concept to try to understand further concepts.
My question still stands, but can be put in other terms. If we take your formulation of the concept of proper time and substitute the word Earth for 'watch' then we get: 'the time measured by Earth is the proper time of the curve in spacetime that represents the Earth's motion'. Is it not fair to say that the only reason we experience time as going forward is because of Earth's motion?