I would certainly be interested in discussing the paper below (see pg2) or the one in post #23, or whether I am misinterpreting the Kocker Specken (entirely likely). They represent my question, understanding and confusion better than I can possibly summarize.
But if that means this is considered an inappropriate thread, I understand.
http://arxiv.org/abs/1506.03733
A naturalist account of the limited, and hence reasonable, effectiveness of mathematics in physics
Authors:https://www.physicsforums.com/find/physics/1/au:+Smolin_L/0/1/0/all/0/1
(Submitted on 11 Jun 2015)
Abstract: The aim of this essay is to propose a conception of mathematics that is fully consonant with naturalism. By that I mean the hypothesis that everything that exists is part of the natural world, which makes up a unitary whole.
Comments: 10 pages latex, no figures. Awarded third place in the 2015 FQXi essay contest
Subjects: History and Philosophy of Physics (physics.hist-ph)
Cite as: https://www.physicsforums.com/abs/1506.03733 [physics.hist-ph]
(or https://www.physicsforums.com/abs/1506.03733v1 [physics.hist-ph] for this version)