vanhees71 said:
... the scalar product in this case is (omitting the angular piece, i.e., concentrating on wave functions that are only ##r## dependent ...
1) The trivial Self-Adjoint, Hermitian Operators.
The Laplacian ##\nabla^2## is symmetric while ##p^2## is the part that acts on the radial part of the eigenstates. We have in a trivial way the following (integral) equations:
##\langle\,\bar{g}\,|\,\nabla^2 f\,\rangle ~~=~~ \langle\,\overline{\nabla^2 g}\,|\,f\,\rangle~~=~~ \langle\,\nabla^2 \bar{g}\,|\,f\,\rangle##
because for each individual point of the fields ##f## and ##g## the following holds.
##g(\nabla^2 f)~~=~~ ((\nabla^2)^\intercal g) f ~~=~~ (\nabla^2 g) f##
The integral expressions are trivial in this case because the expressions above hold for every point so their integral over any bounded area holds as well. An operator here is classified as Self-Adjoined / Hermitian based on the
integral equations. This is one step beyond qualifying them based on their (infinite-dimensional)
matrix properties. This is a key difference.
2) The original question in the OP
Now if ##p^2## was real-symmetric then ##p^4## would be as well. They both would classify as (infinite dimensional) Self-Adjoined Hermitian operators in a trivial way just like ##\nabla^2##. This seems to be the expectation in the OP. He expects ##p^4## to be Hermitian operator but based on the wrong assumption that ##p^2## is an (infinite dimensional) Self-Adjoint, Hermitian matrix, but this is not the case.
##p^2~~=~~ -\dfrac{\hbar^2}{r^2}\dfrac{d}{dr}\left( r^2\dfrac{d}{dr} \right) ~~=~~ -\hbar^2\left(\dfrac{2}{r}\dfrac{\partial}{\partial r}+\dfrac{\partial^2}{\partial r^2}\right)##
The first order derivative term is real anti-symmetric. Therefore the transpose of ##p^2## is:
##\Big(p^2\Big)^\intercal~~=~~ \hbar^2\left(\dfrac{2}{r}\dfrac{\partial}{\partial r}-\dfrac{\partial^2}{\partial r^2}\right)##
Nevertheless ##p^2## becomes a Self-Adjoint, Hermitian
operator according to the integral definition, not in the trivial way as ##\nabla^2## does.
3) Non trivial Self-Adjoint, Hermitian Operators.
We consult the excelent
Arfken &
Weber to see under which conditions a second order differential operator ##\mathcal{L}## becomes a Self-Adjoined operator. In other words when ##\langle\,v\,|\,\mathcal{L}\,u\,\rangle = \langle\,\mathcal{L}\,v\,|\,u\,\rangle##, starting with the simpler case ##\langle\,u\,|\,\mathcal{L}\,u\,\rangle = \langle\,\mathcal{L}\,u\,|\,u\,\rangle##
It is Arfken & Weber (10.6) which tells us if ##\mathcal{L}## is self-adjoint.
4) Operator ##p^2## as a Self-Adjoint Operator.
At first it seems that acording to (10.6) that ##p^2## is not a Self Adjoined operator.
##p^2~~=~~ -\dfrac{\hbar^2}{r^2}\dfrac{d}{dr}\left( r^2\dfrac{d}{dr} \right) ##
but if we multiply it by a factor ##r^2## then ##r^2 p^2## becomes a Self Adjoined operator. This factor ##r^2## is readily explained when we look at the calculations of Hendrik van Hees a few post back. What he does is identical to the steps in Arfken & Weber but now for the specific case of ##p^2##.
vanhees71 said:
Now consider
$$p^2=-\frac{1}{r^2} \partial_r (r^2 \partial_r)$$
Let's check for hermiticity (as a necessary constraint for self-adjointness) [edit: corrected in view of #63]
$$\langle \psi |p^2 \phi \rangle=-\int_0^{\infty} \mathrm{d} r \psi^*(r) \partial_r (r^2 \partial_r \phi(r)) \\
=-r^2 \psi^*(r) \partial_r \phi(r))|_{r=0}^{\infty} + \int_0^{\infty} \mathrm{d} r r^2 \partial_r \psi^*(r) \partial_r \phi(r) \\
=r^2 [\partial_r \psi^*(r) \phi(r)-\psi^*(r) \partial_r \phi(r))]|_{r=0}^{\infty} - \int_0^{\infty} \mathrm{d} r \partial_r[r^2 \partial_r \psi^*(r)] \phi(r) \\
=r^2[\partial_r \psi^*(r) \phi(r)-\psi^*(r) \partial_r \phi(r)]|_{r=0}^{\infty} + \langle p^2 \psi|\phi \rangle.$$
So ##p^2## is Hermitean indeed if the boundary terms vanish.
The factor ##r^2## is explained by the integration. We integrate over spheres so we need a factor of ##r^2## to account for the surface of the spheres depending on ##r##. The multiplication of ##p^2## by ##r^2## thus makes it into a self-adjoint operator according to (10.6)
There seems to be no reason that a combination of ##p^4## and ##r^2## would also make a valid self-adjoint operator as in the trivial cases.