In the discussion on frustrated total internal reflection (FTIR), participants clarify that refraction does not occur when light transitions between media of the same refractive index, maintaining the phase-time-distance relationships. The light does not bend but may experience a lateral offset as it crosses the gap between the media. The conversation also touches on the behavior of evanescent waves, suggesting they do not convey information and have no defined speed of propagation across the gap. Additionally, there is speculation about pulse spreading over time due to the dynamics of wave energy transfer at the interface. Overall, the exchange emphasizes the complexities of wave behavior in FTIR scenarios and the implications for light transmission.