Is there such thing as selflessness?

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The discussion centers around the concept of selflessness, particularly in the context of actions taken by individuals like Mother Teresa and parents. It questions whether true selflessness exists, suggesting that acts of care may often be motivated by personal satisfaction. The conversation explores the instinctual nature of parental sacrifice, proposing that parents may act out of an innate desire to ensure their children's well-being, which could provide them with a sense of fulfillment. Additionally, it considers the role of mental illness in influencing behavior, noting that some actions may occur without conscious reasoning or self-benefit. The idea that selfless acts could be driven by unconscious desires or instincts is emphasized, challenging the notion that all altruistic behavior is devoid of personal gain.
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Mother Terhesa, bless her soul. Though selfless? I think not.

If I care so much for someone that I would do anything for them, is it not because caring for them made ME feel good?
 
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Selfless is a bit of a strong word. It must be difficult to perform an action without taking into any consideration the effect it will have on yourself, but I am sure it is at least possible in theory. I suspect you would most commonly find this in people with children. I'm sure there must be some instinctual mechanism by which a parent makes sacrifices that are of absolutely no benefit to themselves for their children. They may derive pleasure from seeing their children succeed later in life, but they have no guarantee that they will be around to see it.

You might also want to take into account cases of mental illness. Some of the actions of a mentally ill individual are likely motivated by no discernable reasoning process; that is, they do not take into account the effects on themselves or on others. Their actions are simply compelled by their illnesses.
 
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If I care so much for someone that I would do anything for them, is it not because caring for them made ME feel good?

What?? People are gaining happiness from helping people? How dare them! Selfish good for nuthins!
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I suspect you would most commonly find this in people with children. I'm sure there must be some instinctual mechanism by which a parent makes sacrifices that are of absolutely no benefit to themselves for their children.

Does this not imply a desire to sacrifice for children? Things taste good for a reason: in attaining pleasure from caloric substances we are able to sustain our bodies, in the fact that we will turn to food when hungry (as opposed to inedible substances). I am sure there is an instictual component in parents that would make them do anything for their children. If some action or behavior is a function of a desire to do so, then is not a parent "sacrificing" merely to close some circut in their brain that would make them feel content, happier, better?

If one was mentally ill, I suppose that selfless acts are possible (in theory). I figure only one lacking qualia is completely capable of selflessness.
 
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Im sure there is an instictual component in parents that would make them do anything for their children. If some action or behavior is a function of a desire to do so, then is not a parent "sacrificing" merely to close some circut in their brain that would make them feel content, happier, better?

There is nothing inherent in compulsive action that necessitates the deriving of pleasure from the action. The desire need not be conscious. Some parents seem to be made quite miserable by their children, yet they continue to sacrifice for them.
 
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