Demystifier said:
That's close to what I wanted. But in the meantime, I have found my own intuitive qualitative answer which I would like to share.
What fundamental force binds the atoms in a crystal together? This, of course, bust be some manifestation of the electric force. But atoms are electrically neutral, so the force cannot be the electric monopole force. So it must be some electric multipole force, originating from a non-trivial distribution of charge in the atoms. But the atom (and its charge distribution) looks point-like when seen from a distance much larger than the atom size. Consequently, the multipole force must be negligible at such large distances. Therefore the distance ##a## between the neighboring atoms which act on each other by a mutipole force cannot be much larger than the size of the atom. Since the size of atom is of the order of ##a_{Bohr}##, it implies that ##a## cannot be much larger than ##a_{Bohr}##. Q.E.D.
A crystal can be made of atoms, ions or molecules, these units repeating periodically is the space. The distance between the closest repeating units are the lattice parameter. The repeating units can be made of quite a lot of atoms, so the lattice parameter can be much larger than the Bohr radius.
The forces between the repeated units can be of different nature from the forces between the atoms.
Your argument would be true for atomic crystals, consisting of single neutral atoms. Very few crystals are like that!
The simplest crystals like NaCl are ionic: they consist of positive and negative ions, kept together by Coulomb forces. The Coulomb force is a long-range force, being inversely proportional to r
2.
In metals, the repeated units are positive ions held on their place by the free electrons shared by each of these ions.
In such mono-atomic covalent crystals like diamond or silicon, the atoms are kept together by their chemical bonds.These bonds can not be explained by pure electric interaction. The bonds form of pair of electrons which are negative, repulsing each other electrically, but still forming strong bonds in the covalent crystal.Those crystals are like a single molecule.
In the previous cases, you get the lattice parameter as the distance between the closest ions, and you can say that it is comparable to the Bohr radius.
But crytals can be made also of molecules. The atoms in the molecule are kept together by chemical bonds, which are not purely electronic. The molecules in the crystal are kept together by dipole and multipole interaction between the molecules. Molecules can be of any shape and quite large. The interaction between the molecules are not so strong as the chemical bonds between the atoms in the molecule. You can not say that the units of the crystal interact with the same kind of force as the force keeping the atoms together in a molecule.