I am not entirely confident in my knowladge to make replies in this forum, however, looking back to my younger age i would apprectiate someone saying this to me, so i will write it.
john-of-the-divine said:
even though I'm no math expert, it really isn't that far fetched to believe the math could have been forced to fit a model. just because the math works doesn't make it anything less then a best guess. but, like I said, we won't know for sure till we go out there and look.
Physics without math doesn't really work.
One simple example - you know Newtonian theory of gravitation from high school i guess? Then you remember - two objects of certain mass attract each other and the closer they are, the more they attract each other (and as 1/r
2 which means the force goes to infinity when distance goes to zero). Someday you may come across a situation where two wet plates of glass touch each other, and glue themself together. And you remember - they have some mass, so they attract each other. Since they touched, they are very very close together, so the attraction is very strong and that explains why they seem to be glued to each other. Sounds logical. But what if they weren't wet? Then the attraction is weak. But if they are touching each other the attraction should be strong. Then you say - ok, perhaps the plate is not perfectly polished, so it is not touching each other perfectly. And since water is fluid, it will fill the empty spaces and touching will become again perfect.
And on and on you can go explaining stuff using ideas you read somewhere in pop-science books, but you will never know wheter what you said is the actual "truth" or some random mix. You need to make actual calculations to see wheter it fits what you observe or not.
Then there is problem with clarity. When you say something, you need to know what it means. What is space-time? What is electron? What is gravity? What is electromagnetism? You need math to give those words meaning that cannot be misunderstood. And when you go into more and more modern stuff, the misunderstanding will happen with bigger and bigger certainty, because language we use in our everyday lives, and experiences we have are simply too different from what is going on in the math.
When i was at high school i enjoyed so much reading pop-books like hawkings books etc., but looking back (i am doing masters degree now) i didnt learn from those books and discussions on the internet anything at all. It is only now that i can read those books and understand what they mean.
john-of-the-divine said:
I know there has to be something that mass effects to create gravity. I used the term "fabric" as a reflection of that something knowing it's really not a fabric, hahaha. But, this field, do you think it's the "aether", just different then what was once thought to exist?
Physics doesn't care about question "what is this". It cares only about properties. We say - the thing i am talking about (spacetime) has such and such influence on this and this thing. Then we look around and see wheter those influences are observed. If yes, then we say we have good theory and we are happy. But we don't ponder about what it is. And reason is simple - because it is unknowable. All information that comes to you is only of appearances and properties. It is similar to question - do we both see the same picture in the same way? If you see red as i see green, but you call it red, because you were taught to, then you would see different picture in your mind, then the one i see. And there is no way to convey the information of what you see to me, since when it comes to me, it is my brain who interprets it and creates mental picture. So one should forget about this philosophical questions and start looking only on appearances, properties = math. The non-mathematical explanations are only to help intuition to be able to better work with math (or to catch interest of your audience), but it is not fundamental part of science.
We have model of spacetime called general relativity. With this model we can simulate things we observe in universe and ask wheter the simulations have same results as what was observed. If they are same, we are happy and confident with our model until some disagreement is found. If spacetime would slow down photons, then certianly observing distant galaxies we would found disagreements with our model. I am no cosmologist, but i know there are some problems with our models and some people work on new theory of gravity that would explain it better (and there is of course problem of quantum gravity). This discussion i leave for actual experts, but my point was this: we only concern ourself wheter the theory works or not. You said you cannot bend nothing, so be it. Call it different name than nothing, imagine whatever you like. But it has to have the same properties as our purely geometrical approach (assuming our theory works) in order to explain observed phehomena. But in the end it doesn't matter. What matters are only properties, because only those are knowable, other than that is only imagination and speculations. Good for intuition or wonder - but are not fundamental part of science.