Lost Faith in People: Unfortunate Betrayal Story

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A user expresses deep disappointment and betrayal after helping friends with various favors, only to find out they sold their house without informing him. This situation prompts a broader discussion about trust and the rarity of true friendships. Participants empathize with the user's feelings of loss and anger, suggesting that the friends may feel guilty or unsure how to say goodbye. The conversation highlights the emotional impact of such experiences and reassures the user that not all people are like those who betrayed him. There is a sense of community support, with others offering to connect and share positive interactions in the future.
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He and his wife were supposed to be my best friends, i fixed their burst pipes ,installed outside lighting for them, lent them my car and money, and now their house is sold, and not a word to me, people are scum.
 
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Have ypou lost your faith to humans only because of these 2 people or that's because of lots of other cases like that?
 
Good point Lisa!

Wolram, that's really cr@ppy of those people. You still have us. :smile:

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wolram said:
He and his wife were supposed to be my best friends, i fixed their burst pipes ,installed outside lighting for them, lent them my car and money, and now their house is sold, and not a word to me, people are scum.

Perhaps a cliche but true nonetheless: We meet many people but true friends are rare. About ten years ago this really hit home so I cleaned house. It was damned lonely for awhile but the best thing I ever did.

Anyway, is there any chance that they may still drop into say adios?
 
Lisa! said:
Have ypou lost your faith to humans only because of these 2 people or that's because of lots of other cases like that?

Right now Lisa, i am i tears, for the loss of a so called friend and the fact that i do not know where he is so that i can beat the s o b into a pulp, and
yes most people are the same.
 
Did they owe you money?
 
wolram,
The only reason you're posting this here is because you know you have friends here. :smile:
 
Ivan Seeking said:
Did they owe you money?

The money does not mean much but yes, if i think back to the favours i did for them and the cash i lent them, it adds up to quite a bit.
 
Do you think this is why they said nothing?
 
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I am sorry i know PFs people are good, it is just that i have been hit so hard by this, i would never have thought it possible.
 
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wolram said:
I am sorry i know PFs people are good, it is just that i have been hit so hard by this, i would never have thought it possible.
They may just feel guilty about all you done for them and did not know how to say goodbye. I'm sorry Wolram.
 
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Evo said:
They may just feel guilty about all you done for them and did not know how to say goodbye. I'm sorry Wolram.

When i think back they never forgot a birithday or aniverserary in our family,
and all ways bought some token present, i am so stupid.
 
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Perhaps they had resons not to say anything and will contact you soon Wolram. Its not beyond the realms for this to be possible. If they do not I'm sorry that they took advantage of your good nature but keep the faith we'll come through some day :smile:
 
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wolram said:
I am sorry i know PFs people are good, it is just that i have been hit so hard by this, i would never have thought it possible.
Yes your friends at PF are good people. PF people are largely good.

The two people who disappeared without a word do not represent most people. Perhaps one or both has some type of personality disorder.

The next time I'm in the UK, I'll look you up and we'll have a beer or cup of tea - or how about tea and crumpet or tea and scones. I'll bring some jam or preserves. :smile: :-p :cool:
 

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