Superweirdo, rather than shooting a hundred basic questions at the forums, you would be better served to try and learn the subject matter on your own and come here with specific doubts regarding points that you are unclear about. That would also be in the best interest of the forums, in my opinion.
For instance, you must first understand broadly how a magnet works, before you start wondering about why it behaves in a certain way. I could tell you that the dipole-dipole interaction energy has a maximum for one orientation and a minimum for the other, but that would help in no way unless you know how to calculate such a thing.
From all the other threads I've read, I don't get the impression that you are actually learning anything...just picking up a few disconnected tidbits that will sooner than later leave your head for lack of a unified comprehension.
What we could do well, however, is point you to learning resources that will help build such a comprehension.