Managing Mental Illness & Research: Seeking Guidance from a Mentor

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Disclosing personal challenges such as Asperger's, ADD, social anxiety, and depression to a mentor can be a nuanced decision. The relationship's nature is crucial; sharing may be appropriate if the mentor is viewed as a close friend, as they might already be aware of the struggles. However, if the mentor is more of a professional figure, it may be wise to refrain from disclosure. The individual acknowledges the importance of accountability and the need for patience in a research environment, emphasizing that these conditions should not be used as excuses for performance. Ultimately, the decision hinges on the mentor-mentee relationship and the potential benefits of transparency in fostering understanding and support.
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Is it ever wise to tell my mentor that I'm going through Asperger's, ADD, Social Anxiety, and depression? (by the way, the Asperger's and ADD were both professionally diagnosed - the other two undiagnosed simply because there isn't a need to go through all the trouble of diagnosing me with them).

I fully realize that they *cannot* be used as excuses, and that I will be evaluated on what output I can produce alone. Furthermore, not everyone is sympathetic to this. But I feel like I need to do it to give closure. And maybe it might explain some things to the adviser once the adviser gets down to writing recommendations for me. I *can* do research, but people need more patience with me than with most others. And that's the concern here.
 
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Simfish said:
Is it ever wise to tell my mentor that I'm going through Asperger's, ADD, Social Anxiety, and depression? (by the way, the Asperger's and ADD were both professionally diagnosed - the other two undiagnosed simply because there isn't a need to go through all the trouble of diagnosing me with them).

Depends on the relationship you have with that person. If you see them as a close friend, then sure, but they probably already know. If you see them as your manager, the probably not.
 
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