Let me take your latest post first: When I say core bounce, it refers to an inner core of about 0.8 solar masses which has formed a neutron star by, first freefalling due to a loss of pressure from electron capture onto protons that formed the neutrons, then suddenly stiffening due to the neutrons having to obey the Pauli Exclusion Principle. Then, the outer core, also formed by electron capture, falls, supersonically onto the inner core, bouncing off it causing a shock wave that diffuses the neutrons into the overlying layers of the stellar material which produces the r-process elements. This isn't the whole story however; The best computer simulations have yet to successfully produce a supernova explosion, so there is some as yet unknown mechanism that is responsible for supernovae explosions. One of the authors of the paper you originally referenced, Janka, has produced models that find the outer shockwave is strengthened when convection of the overlying material is taken into account, but we still have a long way to go.
Now for your former post: No one is arguing that the models aren't a remarkably accurate fit to terrestrial (and galactic) r-process abundances. On the left hand of the graph you provided, you'll find the vertical axis is labeled in Gigaparsecs. The Milky Way is only 100 thousand light years in diameter, so what the authors are referring to is a large fraction of the observable universe. The neutron star merger observed by LIGO was thought to be 150 million light years away, and so far there have been no gravitational waves or short gamma ray bursts observed within the milky way galaxy, even in Globular Clusters where it's thought that neutron stars sink to the center and x-ray sources have been observed.
As a quick contrast, it's been estimated that there are about 4 million neutron stars presently in the galaxy. Only a fraction of them will be in a double binary. On the other hand, using what's called the Initial Mass Function (IMF) of main sequence (hydrogen core burning) stars ( the IMF is the number of stars of a specific mass, low mass stars are more numerous than high mass stars) and a total number of stars in the galaxy of 200 billion (an EXTREMELY conservative estimate) we find a total number of stars that are massive enough to end in a supernova explosion of 4 billion. It's also been estimated that the number of supernova explosions in the galaxy is about 1 or 2 every hundred years, while the number of neutron star collisions is speculated to be 1 or 2 a year for the entire universe.
Does this clear things up?