Never liked working with other people

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The discussion centers around a person's lifelong preference for solitary work and discomfort with collaboration, particularly in academic settings. This individual expresses concern about societal perceptions of their behavior, feeling that a preference for independence is unfairly labeled as a mental issue. Participants in the conversation share similar sentiments, suggesting that covering up one's work can be a protective measure against those who might undermine academic integrity. There is acknowledgment that some individuals may experience social anxiety or related disorders, which could affect their interactions with others. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing personal comfort levels in collaborative environments and suggests seeking professional help if social fears significantly impact one's quality of life. Overall, the thread highlights a tension between personal work preferences and societal expectations regarding collaboration.
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Ok I have been wondering about this. Since I was a little kid I have never liked working with other people. This continues up till today, the college days. Whenever I am working out a problem I don't like to be around other people, I always cover up my answers or my work--I just can't explain it.
 
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Sounds completely normal to me.

It's a shame that our society is so crooked that someone who prefers to work on their own should begin to feel like they have a mental issue.

Covering up your answers and work is a good practice. You're protecting yourself from people who wish to undermine the educational system and attain the same level of success as you, not by working as hard, but by leeching off of your talent.

Don't worry. One day, you'll come across some people that you can identify as hard-working and intelligent, and you won't mind being around them because there will be no questions about their integrity. Unfortunately, these people are few and far between nowadays.
 


I don't think it is that normal. Normal people just scribble things down incomprehensible to others...
 


completenoob said:
Ok I have been wondering about this. Since I was a little kid I have never liked working with other people. This continues up till today, the college days. Whenever I am working out a problem I don't like to be around other people, I always cover up my answers or my work--I just can't explain it.

I'm going to guess that you don't experience other people as "helping" but as "interfering". Does that sound right?
 


Focus said:
I don't think it is that normal. Normal people just scribble things down incomprehensible to others...

I used to write down wrong solutions and let everybody see them. :devil:
 


Some people experience social anxiety disorder or similar phobias - please see http://www.adaa.org/GettingHelp/AnxietyDisorders/SocialPhobia.asp .

If you feel that your fear of others is interfering with your quality of life, you may want to see a counselor found through your insurance company, or if indigent and in the U.S., through your community mental health center.

Someone very close to me has SAD. Phobias may be the most common classification of mental illness - and no fault.
 
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But, if you feel that your fear of others is based on them interfering with your quality of life, then carry on.
 


Tom Mattson said:
I used to write down wrong solutions and let everybody see them. :devil:

I used to write down what I thought were right solutions and let everybody see them and we all got them wrong:wink:
 

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