Doc Al said:
What if the lightning strikes occurred at different times? Just because the lightning source (cloud) is at rest with respect to the embankment does [not] make the strikes simultaneous in that frame.
Of course. The strikes don't have to be equidistant from the embankment. Einstein uses the example of simultaneity within one frame and its absence in a different frame to illustrate the lack of simultaneity
across frames.
My claim is that simultaneity does indeed apply across frames. Only in the abstract does the dismissal of a universal frame of reference (fixed aether) make all frames equally relative. In reality, that is, as soon as something actually
happens, a privileged frame presents itself, namely the frame in which the disputed events occur. If the scenario is lightning, the privileged frame is the embankment. If the scenario is a flash of light in the train, the privileged frame is the train. Instead of two frames equally valid and therefore each in possession of its own time, we have one correct and one incorrect frame (per scenario) in the context of a single present moment. Multiple times (relative simultaneity) cannot be inferred from multiple frames.
Einstein's approach works only if we can assume away flowing time from the outset. In this case there's no such thing as "happening" and therefore no difference between abstraction and reality. So long as the equality of all frames is true in the abstract, it's true, period. This is why Popper called Einstein Parmenidean. Like Zeno, another student of Parmenides, Einstein banished movement and change, but he did so by the much more fundamental means of recasting time as static dimensionality.
Incidentally, in a universe that's actually happening, simultaneity across frames is the only way we can account for time dilation. Otherwise, in relation to low-speed frames, the high-speed frame literally would regress into the past due to time slowing, a problem Einstein evaded by eliminating temporality altogether. No flow no slow.