If this lampshade is a body of revolution, like most lampshades, you have seriously misinterpreted the Pappus Centroid Theorem in order to calculate the area of the surface or revolution:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pappus's_centroid_theorem
Since the shade is fabricated from steel with a thickness of 0.6 mm, you want to calculate the arclength of the shape of the shade and figure out its centroid from the z-axis, not what you have done.
You should pretend the shade is laid out as 3 skinny rectangles, with each rectangle having a width equal to the thickness of the steel, 0.6 mm. IOW, the top and bottom of the shade are cylinders and the middle portion is the frustum of a cone.
The centroid of each segment is going to lie somewhere inside the corresponding skinny rectangle, which is why the OP gives the hint, "Take the radii to be to midthickness."