While mathbalarka's suggestion is quite clever and makes light work of the problem, I would have assumed the decomposition would take the form:
$$\frac{4x^2y}{\left(x^2-2xy+2y^2\right)\left(x^2+2xy+2y^2\right)}=\frac{Ax+By+C}{x^2-2xy+2y^2}+\frac{Dx+Ey+F}{x^2+2xy+2y^2}$$
and then plodded along with the resulting cumbersome algebra.
Hence:
$$4x^2y=(Ax+By+C)\left(x^2+2xy+2y^2\right)+(Dx+Ey+F)\left(x^2-2xy+2y^2\right)$$
$$4x^2y=(A+D)x^3+(C+F)x^2+(2A+B-2D+E)x^2y+(2A+2B+2D-2E)xy^2+(2C-2F)xy+(2C+2F)y^2+(2B+2E)y^3$$
Comparing coefficients, we obtain:
$$A+D=0$$
$$C+F=0$$
$$2A+B-2D+E=4$$
$$A+B+D-E=0$$
$$C-F=0$$
$$B+E=0$$
From the 2nd and 5th equations, we immediately find:
$$C=F=0$$
From the 1st, 4th and 6th, we find:
$$B=E=0$$
Thus, we are left with:
$$A=-D$$
$$A=D+2$$
Thus, $$A=1,\,D=-1$$ and so we find:
[box=green]$$\frac{4x^2y}{\left(x^2-2xy+2y^2\right)\left(x^2+2xy+2y^2\right)}=\frac{x}{x^2-2xy+2y^2}-\frac{x}{x^2+2xy+2y^2}$$[/box]