You've asked a wide range of questions..may be better to try one at a time so you get to sort things out...but here goes.
How do Planck's photon theories relate to the belief that all forces may be unified at high speeds?
I can't think of a "Planck photon theory" at the moment. Maxwell did the field equations for light (electromagnetic waves);Schrodinger the wave equation; Einstein the photoelectric effect...;beam splitter "double split" type experiments; that's all that come to mind.
The unification of three of four forces (strong,weak, electromagnetic) has been done (at least to some degree) and so far seems pretty good. But it can't be the final answer because gravity remains outside and general relativity )GR) and quantum gravity are not yet unfied. Nobody knows how all four forces were apparently once "unified" during the very early moments of our universe when energies and temperatures were almost incomprehensibly high. And there may be another basic field

iggs which imparts mass to particles and may be found at the Large Hadron Collider (LHC,currently being repaired).
Planck scale sets some apparent minimum size to space and time, that is discreteness, but also envisions extremely high energies on such small scales...nothing likes to be confined and gets "jittery", "uncertain". Quantum theory relates to the small and discrete; general relativity more a classical and continuous wave perspective; but there are quantum field theories as well. There are many varieties quantum theories; relativity is, I think, more uniformely accepted. Loop quantum gravity is the one, I believe, which offers the hope of unification with GR; but that's very speculative.
High Planck scale energies may be the factor that prevents us from accurately measuring sub atomic paramaters to arbitrary accuracy like energy and time, or momentum and position...the Heisenbery uncertainty principle. Whatever the obstacle, both quantum theory and GR breakdown at the extremes of the origin of the universe and inside black holes.
I understand that light waves can act as particles, and particles can act as light waves. Waves/particles emit energy. And Planck's scale is believed to be around the length of convergence of all forces. But besides this, is there a connection between Planck/Einstein's theories and the work being done to speed up particles in an attempt to clash them?
Light has a dual nature of wave and particle like other sub atomic particles. Sometimes it appears one way, sometimes another. The forces were believed unified at extremely high temperatures: I don't believe it's known for certain if Planck scale constraints played a role other than that happened to be when the extreme energies existed. As things cooled, a phase transition switched to a lower energy universe and the four (or five) fields (forces) split and became distinct.
I have not read that the LHC is probing anything specifically related tp Planck Scale; maybe others can comment. Nor do I know if any aspect of relativity is planned for additional testing.
I believe most would agree relativity and quantum theory have been pretty well proven experimentally, at least under the limited conditions we can create; I don't think anything near Planck scale has been experimentally confirmed.