Polygamy in Turkey: Culture Clashes & Regrets

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Polygamy in Turkey, particularly in the Kurdish region, continues to be a significant cultural practice despite being outlawed since 1926. Aga Mehmet Arslan, a village chieftain with five wives and a large family, reflects on his experiences, expressing regret over his choice to marry multiple women. He cites the challenges of managing relationships and the logistics of family life as reasons he would prefer monogamy if given another chance. While polygamy is accepted in some religious contexts, the discussion highlights the cultural clash between traditional practices and modern legal frameworks aimed at empowering women. The conversation also touches on the complexities of familial relationships and the evolving perspectives on marriage within the community.
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Polygamy Fosters Culture Clashes (and Regrets) in Turkey
NY Times, July 10, 2006
ISIKLAR, Turkey, July 6 — With his 5 wives, 55 children and 80 grandchildren, 400 sheep, 1,200 acres of land and a small army of servants, Aga Mehmet Arslan would seem an unlikely defender of monogamy.

Yet if he were young again, said Mr. Arslan, a sprightly, potbellied, 64-year-old Kurdish village chieftain, he would happily trade in his five wives for one.

"Marrying five wives is not sinful, and I did so because to have many wives is a sign of power," he said, perched on a divan in a large cushion-filled room at his house, where a portrait of Turkey's first president, Mustafa Kemal Ataturk, who outlawed polygamy in 1926, is prominently displayed.

"But I wouldn't do it again," he added, listing the challenges of having so many kin — like the need to build each wife a house away from the others to prevent friction and his struggle to remember all of his children's names. "I was uneducated back then, and God commands us to be fruitful and multiply."

Though banned by Ataturk as part of an effort to modernize the Turkish republic and empower women, polygamy remains widespread in this deeply religious and rural Kurdish region of southeastern Anatolia, home to one-third of Turkey's 71 million people. The practice is generally accepted under the Koran.
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Yet if he were young again, said Mr. Arslan, a sprightly, potbellied, 64-year-old Kurdish village chieftain, he would happily trade in his five wives for one.
I woder how many wives he has after that statement :smile:

"I was uneducated back then, and God commands us to be fruitful and multiply."
He must have heard from God when unicellular organisms ruled that part of the world.
Did God change his mind or somethin' ? :biggrin:
 

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