the pressure becomes less when it is not perpendicular
Yes that's right.
If two equal forces are acting (on equal surfaces) one perpendicular and one at an angle - the perpendicular force exerts more pressure than the angled one.
Now I want to ask another question:
Why do we define pressure as "AVERAGE" force acting normally on unit area at this point
as in the page provided above?
Most people just accept what they are told, but you are obviously a thinking person so here is some extra detail.
The terms 'normal stress' and 'pressure' refer to the same physical phenomenon.
'Normal stress' is usually used in conection with solids and 'pressure' in connection with fluids.
We sometimes talk about pressure in connection with solids when we are considering contact stresses between two solids for instance 'foundation pressure' or 'bearing pressure'.
In the first sketch I have a 1kg weight sitting on a block of concrete, which is much bigger than the weight.
On the surface (section AA) where the weight is sitting the weight is concentrated only over the area of the contact surface, not over the whole area of AA.
As we go deeper into the concrete the 1kg spreads out over a wider and wider part of the concrete until we can say that the weight exterts an average pressure of 1kg divided by the area of the concrete block at section CC.
At intermediate section BB the pressure exerted by the weight is intermediate between that at AA and CC.
So what would happen if the block of concrete extended much further?
Well in sketch 2 I have shown the foundation pressure under a building of weight W. You can see a series of 'bowls of soil' that get larger and larger in area as we get further from the building. So W is distributed over an increasing area and the pressure gradually diminishes over these increasing areas.
Back to fluids, for although the pressure is the same in all directions at a point in a fluid, it can still vary from point to point.
So in sketch 3 I have shown the steadily increasing pressure of the water on the back of a dam. This increases linearly from nothing at the surface to a maximum at the base. As a result I have shown a triangle of forces.
I do not know if you have yet covered centre of gravity?
The 'average' pressure is the pressure at the centre of gravity (properly called the centre of pressure) of the triangle. The force on the dam equals this average pressure times the wetted area of the back of the dam.
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