Carlos L. Janer said:
you physicists ASSUME that this stochastic process is ergodic
Not in places where it would matter.
The measurement result is something along the line of "we set an upper limit of 1 decay in 10
30 protons in one year (in 2015)". This can be compared to various supersymmetry, GUT, and whatever approaches that predict 1 out of 10
29 (ruled out), 10
31 (open) or any other number per year.
For convenience, those numbers are quoted as lifetimes, assuming strictly exponential decay. But that is just a fixed conversion that does not impact the actual physics impact behind it - the comparison between theory and experiment.
All our physical laws are assumptions. The good ones are backed by many precise experiments. The existence of something called electrons is just an assumption. But it is in excellent agreement with experiments, and there is no alternative theory without electrons that would agree with experiments.
The neutrino masses are small compared to other particle masses, but large enough to have their mass differences measured - if we can measure something it is clearly not negligible. If the laws of physics change over time then this change has to be so small that we cannot measure it today - which means for the current experimental precision it is negligible.