@Nugatory
Of course you are right, that was a stupid thing to say about light cones, I now understand that they are independent from the frames.
So for conclusion you are saying to me that these 3 facts:
1. From rest frame a, when a reaches detector b has not reached yet
2. From rest frame b, when b reaches detector a has not reached yet
3. From rest frame of lab, both detectors "see" a particle at same time.
are just all about relativity of simultaneity, and no paradox at all?
If yes, please bare to answer also my next basic question so that I can clear things in my mind about this:
I suppose that there is a mechanism, which when detects a proton in detector a, places a barier just before detector b in a way that it closes the way of proton b (as seen from rest frame of proton a). This mechanism let's suppose it is a single object so it can tranfer the information instantly for the distance recuired (I am not sure if I can say this). Now what?
craigi said:
Even if we consider the photon to have a rest frame, it's not sufficient to explain this case. We need to explain it for all observers and your explanation doesn't work for any valid observer.
Help me a little more, because I am unable understand from what I know what is the difference of EPR experiment and entaglement experiment. If you talk about entaglement, I don't understand what is the difficullty from any valid observers frame.
craigi said:
There's another way in which it fails. Entangled photons don't ned to travel in opposite directions. We can direct the photons to travel perpendicular to each other if we wish. In which case, even in the limit of the relative velocity approaching c, the the particles do not converge to a point on a plane.
Hmm. You have a point of course. In fact your point holds in any case that Alice, emiter and Bob are not in the same line. I can only think two possible solutions to this now. The first one is that they converge to a point on a line, but that whould mean that dey would have only 1 dimensional polarization, which I suppose is not the case at all. The second solution I can think about, is that they still converge to a plane, that is perpendicular to the direction of their relative motion, but as we change thedirection of their relative motion for example though optical fibers, this plane continues to be perpendicular to that direction at all times, with the photon just changing a position in that plane if needed.