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elabed haidar
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hello everyone i am in my first year in university and i really want to know this girl more but i don't know how so start so any advice
elabed haidar said:i didnt even like her but when she sat beside me i don't what happened we laughed and made jokes
elabed haidar said:i didnt even like her but when she sat beside me i don't what happened we laughed and made jokes
Smiles302 said:Can I ask what age you both are?
A date doesn't have to be a movie, you could go for lunch somewhere nice or even a walk in a park.
elabed haidar said:thank you very much but i have a small problem even if she likes to go with me to the movies she can't because she needs 2.5 hrs to reach her house and the only way to go there is only her dad and comes the other problem so i will try to start step by step and then we will see what happens thank you all
DanP said:Never take a women to lunch or dinner on the first date. You are stuck with that person for the duration of the lunch , and no matter how much you might want to be somewhere else you are stuck there. It ain't fair for either of you :P Try something more casual than a lunch. A coffee, a drink, the walk you mentioned , whatever something which doesn't commit you to any large extent of time. See how that works out and take it from there.
elabed haidar said:i really appreciate what you guys are saying but here is the problem i can't take here outside the university she lives with her dad all by herself so she needs to be beside him that's why only in university i can be with her
elabed haidar said:i really appreciate what you guys are saying but here is the problem i can't take here outside the university she lives with her dad all by herself so she needs to be beside him that's why only in university i can be with her
Approaching someone can be nerve-wracking, but the best way is to simply be yourself and strike up a conversation. Find common ground by asking about her major, classes, or extracurricular activities.
Some signs that a girl may be interested in you include making eye contact, laughing at your jokes, and finding excuses to spend time with you. However, the best way to know for sure is to communicate openly and directly with her.
Start by getting to know her in a group setting, such as through a shared class or club. This will allow you to get to know her in a low-pressure environment and see if you have common interests.
Some good conversation starters include asking about her interests, sharing something interesting you learned in class, or asking for her opinion on a current event. Be genuine and show interest in what she has to say.
If you feel like you have a good connection with a girl, simply ask her if she would like to grab coffee or go on a study date with you. Be respectful and understanding if she declines, and remember that it's okay to take things slow and get to know each other first.