itoero said:
Mass is the measure of an object's resistance to acceleration when a net force is applied.
This is a concept taught in introductory physics classes. It comes from this expression of Newton's 2nd Law: ##a=\frac{F}{m}##. It's not wrong, it's just that it's an approximation that's valid only when speeds are small compared to ##c##.
In the decade or two surrounding the year 1900 it became clear to researchers (who thanks to the invention of the vacuum pump were able to acclerate particles to high speeds) that it didn't seem to be true any more. They tried to rescue its validity by inventing different kinds of mass, but it gets really messy because the mass is different at different speeds, different for different directions of the force, and the direction of the acceleration is not parallel to the direction of the force.
Researchers quickly abandoned this attempt and instead of inventing new kinds of mass they modified the relationship between acceleration and force. The problem though, is that it took a hundred years, that is the decade or two surrounding the year 2000, for physics educators (who had the physics just as right, for the most part, as the researchers did) to fully catch on to the notion that different kinds of mass are not only not needed, but an impediment to learning.
Relativistic mass explains that. If kinetic energy isn't mass then there shouldn't be a speedlimit
Just because you can use an idea to explain something doesn't mean using that idea is the only way to provide the explanation. And by the way, it's incorrect to use relativistic mass in that particular explanation, you instead have to use one of those other kinds of mass I mentioned above, called longitudinal mass, if you want the explanation to correctly match what you measure happening when you accelerate massive (as opposed to massless) particles to high speeds.
A better way to explain why you can't accelerate a particle to light speed is to realize that if you have an invariant speed (that is a speed that's the same to all inertial observers regardless of their speed relative to each other) then that speed has to be a speed that you can never attain. It goes something like this. Chase after a light beam, not matter how fast you chase after it, it will always recede from you at speed ##c##. Therefore you can never attain speed ##c##.
Another way is to look at the relationship between kinetic energy and speed. You see then that for massive (as opposed to massless) particles their kinetic energy increases beyond all bounds as the speed approaches ##c##.
You don't need relativistic mass for anything qualitative or quantitative. You're much better off spending the effort on learning about the geometry of spacetime because it will give you a clearer, and by the way a visual, understanding, as opposed to some pieces of misinformation that were cobbled together way back around 1900 before people really understood what's going on.