CosmicVoyager said:
Yes. I am having difficulty picturing it. I don't think I am going to understand what you are trying to explain in just words without an actual picture or animation. I would expect such animations to exist already.
I don't know the directions of the lines, and I don't see how the light appears to be moving at the same speeds to both observers. I need to see observers and light in 4D as a series of 3D grids, or in 3D series of 2d grids.
Don't worry about how they see the light moving at the same speed right now. Just understand that this picture is unvarying, and it is the bottom line. Any physics, any geometry, any description of the universe, of what happens in the universe, how things interact, how all the lines connect up, all happen in this unvarying spacetime, independent of any observer.
For example, if an electron and a positron collide and emit a gamma ray, there are two straight lines that come together and meet. At the point that they meet, another line goes away from that vertex, and it is the photon. These three lines and the point at which they meet are absolutely fixed in spacetime. The angles between the lines are absolutely determined and fixed in spacetime.
You say you don't know the directions of the lines. How should I describe the directions of the lines? One way to describe the direction of a line is to establish a coordinate system. If we are in a 3D spacetime, we can choose three orthogonal axes, whose directions we know, and then we can describe the direction of the line. Otherwise you cannot talk about the direction of a line, you can only talk about the angle it makes with another line, and the plane of that angle.
Lets say an observer is a point in space, and in an "inertial frame". This means they exist as a straight line in spacetime. That line is their "world line". You can think of it as the observer traveling along this line. The 2D space that is orthogonal to that persons world line and passes through them is what they experience as their 2D space at that time. Everything in that 2D space happens simultaneously. Anything "above it" happens later, everything below it happens "before". Other observers that are moving at a constant velocity with respect to you have world lines that are separate from you and at an angle with respect to your world line. The 2D space orthogonal to their world line, passing through them, is what they experience as their 2D space "now". Everything on that plane is simultaneous to them. Obviously you and that person will disagree on what is simultaneous. If you see two events (like two firecrackers going off) and you say they happened in the same place, the other observer will say no, they happened in different places. But if you both understand relativity, you will both agree on what happened in spacetime, as you must.
This is all spacetime geometry. You have to learn spacetime geometry, just like you learned plane or solid geometry. Its the same kind of thing, only a bit more complicated. Once you learn spacetime geometry, you will find that all the paradoxes are just the result of people not understanding spacetime geometry, treating special relativity like a bunch of recipes in a cookbook, which may or may not have any relationship to each other, all kinds of strange voodoo going on with no rhyme or reason. Once you understand spacetime geometry, its like solving a problem in plane or solid geometry. Do it step by step, and you are done.