tygerdawg said:
... passed my hand in front of the ... beam of light... about 40mm in diameter and about 500 watts. What I felt was a warm spot move across my hand like I was passing my hand close to a light bulb (one of the old incandescent types).
... I figure all those photons hitting my hand transferred their kinetic energy & momentum to my hand. This transfer of momentum manifested itself as a change from kinetic energy to heat energy and the temperature increased on my hand.
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... The mechanism for heating is when the IR energy hits an object, ...see above.
As I said, I'm way out of my comfort zone here, but
I don't think "hitting" and momentum come into absorption of electromagnetic radiation to any significant degree.
Even photons, which have zero rest mass, have momentum.
Their energy is E=hf and their momentum p=h/λ and since fλ=c the speed of light, I get p=E/c
So for your beam of 500 J per second, ##p = {\frac{500}{3\times10^8}=1.7\times10^-6Nsec\ per\ sec}##
Not enough to feel as a force I'd have thought and not enough to do noticeable mechanical work on the molecules.
Absorption of photons depends a lot on the frequency. As you say, it seems infrared is the key. Their photon energies match the differences in vibrational energy levels of many molecules. So they can be absorbed and increase the vibration of the molecules. (I would speculate their electric field is oscillating at a similar frequency to the molecular vibrations and having just looked up a few values, IR is between 3x10^11Hz and 4x10^14 Hz, molecular vibrations around 10^12Hz to 10^14Hz)
For visible light, with higher frequency, I believe absorption is usually by raising electrons to a higher quantum PE state within a molecule. When these electrons decay back to lower levels, if they do so in smaller steps, the radiation emitted would be of lower frequency (IR) which can then be absorbed in vibrations of molecules.
The warm spot you feel is from absorbing the energy of the light beam, but I think it is the electronic effect rather than mechanical impact which is warming your molecules. On the other hand I do find people talking about the energy of a photon being kinetic energy, so maybe I'm all wrong and the photon simply bangs into a molecule, makes it vibrate and translate faster, and all the electronic effects are just side effects of the molecule being shaken up? Maybe it doesn't make any difference what you say? There seems to be a lot in the quantum world where people say, that's just the way it is - don't ask questions!