Choppy said:
I agree in principle, but it practice, fighting the good fight is very tough and has consequences.
I quite agree, it's not a step that should be taken lightly. For example, if you have a dozen more job offers, it's just not worth it. On the other hand, there's the possibility that you would stay unemployed for months because you didn't get the job. In these cases, there are some subtleties I would like to point. (If you want to call it nagging, that's fine too.

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Choppy said:
- Who wants to be the person who got the job after dragging the employer through court?
Assuming that what I wrote above is true, one might ask for a monetary compensation in court. This is a reasonable enough demand. Of course, there's still the problem of having to prove that you were a. a good candidate for the job, and b. actually being discriminated against.
The first is necessary because very few judges will make someone pay you compensation if you were a somewhat questionable candidate to begin with - it's very easy for your would-be employer to convince the judge that this is the reason you didn't get the job, even if he appeared to ask discriminating questions (for which he might then apologize). Even if the judge rules in your favor, you would not be compensated for any potentially lost income (because there was none to begin with).
That you would need evidence of the latter is obvious. Technically speaking,
everyone who didn't get the job but had reasonable credentials can say they were being discriminated against. Thus, if this potential employer doesn't outright confess that he discriminated against you, you had better have a recording of the conversation, or something equally incriminating.
Choppy said:
- What fresh PhD graduate is in the financial position to take a potential employer to court?
- Is it worth it to spend the time fighting?
These are, I think, the most compelling reasons not to fight someone in court. Compensation is good, but the road to get there is often long and, well, expensive. Also, it
is true that taking someone to court is somewhat of a gamble: you might have the advantage (proof and the law on your side), but that doesn't stop a richer person from appealing each and every time until you're out of breath (read: money). Typically, employers have more money than employees.
What you need to do really depends on what kind of person your employer is (or think he/she is), and how money you are willing to wager. If you think this employer is likely to just pay compensation when it becomes obvious his actions were illegal, going to court isn't such a bad idea. On the other hand, I have known plenty of people who would just keep appealing a court because they knew their opponents did not have enough money to stay in the game.
Choppy said:
- What about personal social consequences among people who have nothing do to with the case? How hard is it to get a date with the label of "feminist crusader?"
To be completely honest, if I were a woman, I would not date anyone who would consider me a feminist crusader for such an obviously discriminatory thing, especially if had done it for purely economic reasons. (i.e. 'I need the money', not 'I\'ll teach the bastard a lesson!') Then again, what 'label' you get depends a lot on the people you associate yourself with, so depending on who and where you are, this can be a valid point.