well, my guess there's two ways of doing it...
a. picking extra gentle books on analysis when starting out
b. getting 1 or 2 of the half dozen books on how to do proofs, which can start off as a slow and frustrating path for many, but if you get a book who's style speaks to you, that's another way.
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Here's some of my notes
[aka stuff i cut and pasted off the web]
- Introductory Mathematics: Algebra and Analysis (Springer Undergraduate Mathematics Series) (Paperback) - Geoffrey C. Smith - Second Corrected Edition - Springer 1998 - 216 pages
[The material and layout is different to most textbooks. It is probably a book for people who want to grasp the idea of mathematics rather than just pass an exam. As the author notes in the preface it is a 'gentle and relaxed introduction'. The mathematics is pure and the emphasis is on the idea rather than on how to solve particular problems in the life sciences or engineering. Topics covered include; Sets, functions and relations; Proofs; Complex numbers; Vectors and matrices; Group theory; Sequences and series; Real numbers; and Mathematical analysis. It is an excellent book for those interested in learning and understanding mathematics. The book also offers an interesting glimpse of the mathematical mind.]
[A splendid introduction to the concepts of higher mathematics]
[Geoff Smith's Introductory Mathematics: Algebra and Analysis provides a splendid introduction to the concepts of higher mathematics that students of pure mathematics need to know in upper division mathematics courses.]
[The text begins with material on set theory, logic, functions, relations, equivalence relations, and intervals that is assumed or briefly discussed in all advanced pure mathematics courses. Smith then devotes a chapter to demonstrating various methods of proof, including mathematical induction, infinite descent, and proofs by contradiction. He discusses counterexamples, implication, and logical equivalence. However, the chapter is not a tutorial on how to write proofs. For that, he suggests that you work through D. L. Johnson's text Elements of Logic via Numbers and Sets (Springer Undergraduate Mathematics Series).]
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- D. L. Johnson's - Elements of Logic via Numbers and Sets
so if you wanted to piece together an baby analysis library for self-study
you could do
1. - Introductory Mathematics: Algebra and Analysis - Springer - Geoffrey C. Smith
2. D. L. Johnson's - Elements of Logic via Numbers and Sets
supplemented with:
a. Bartle - Introduction to Real Analysis - 3ed - Wiley 2000 - Chapters 1-3
b. Burn - Numbers and Functions, Steps into Analysis - Cambridge 2000 - Chapter 1–6
[This is a book of problems and answers, a DIY course in analysis.]
c. Howie - Real Analysis - Springer 2001
supplemented by:
d. Mary Hart - A Guide to Analysis - MacMillan 1990 - Chapter 2 - too gentle
e. Burkill - A First Course In Mathematical Analysis - Cambridge 1962 - Chapters 1, 2 and 5 - too gentle
f. Binmore - Mathematical Analysis, A Straightforward Approach - Cambridge 1990 - Chapters 1–6 - too gentle
g. Bryant - Yet Another Introduction to Analysis - Cambridge 1990 - Chapter1,2 - too gentle
h. Smith - Introductory Mathematics: Algebra and Analysis - Springer 1998 - Chapter 3 - too gentle
i. Michael Spivak - Calculus - Benjamin 1967 - Parts 1,4,5 - more advanced
j. Bruckner, Bruckner and Thomson - Elementary Analysis - Prentice Hall 2001 - Chapter 1–4 - more advanced]
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If you took a class in calculus and didnt know anything about proofs, another way could be:
- Advanced Calculus: A Friendly Approach - Witold A.J. Kosmala - Prentice-Hall - 700 pages - 1998
[I have copies of Rudin, Apostol, Bear, Fulks, and Protter, but this book beats them all as an introductory text. If you are looking for a self-study text, or if you want a reference companion to help you understand Rudin or Apostol, try this book first. You won't be disappointed.]
[The author of this book has used " a friendly approach " to present the stuff so that readers will actively be engaged in learning with less strain. This has not in a sense simplified the difficult elements of Calculus but bringing along the readers to think and reason while studying the subject.]
[Designed to be readable and intimidation-free, this advanced calculus book presents material that flows logically allowing readers to grasp concepts and proofs. Providing in-depth discussion of topics, the book also features common errors to encourage caution and easy recall of errors. It also presents many proofs in great detail and those which should not provide difficulty are either short or simply outlined.]
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something mathwonk said a few years ago is in my note with another book...
- Allendoerfer, C.B. and Oakley, C.O. Principles of Mathematics - McGraw-Hill 1963
[MAA recommendation] - Calculus and Precalculus: School Mathematics
[mathwonk recommended this for help with logic and reading proofs and
writing proofs]
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Mathematical Analysis: A Modern Approach to Advanced Calculus - Second Edition - Tom M. Apostol - Addison-Wesley 1957/1974
my freaky notes has this remark about Apostol's book:
[This book is more detailed, and the dependency of the material is less strict - it's easier to open this book to a specific topic and understand it without having to cross-reference earlier theorems.]
What you'll need to acquaint yourself with is:
a) learning math on your own. You need to be able to sit down with a textbook, read it, understand every line, and be able to apply it. This is very hard for most folks in college. As a college student, your job is to teach yourself. The professor only facilitates. Most people not only don't know this, they also have the very hardest time teaching themselves math.
b) you need a gentle introduction to proofs. The bright folks can and do figure out simple proofs on their own. Most high school and elementary college math completely omits proofs (because students balk). As a result, very basic things about proofs are not completely understood by the bright math student starting out. You need to bone up on this stuff - at first, it will seem really simple, maybe even an insult to your intelligence. It is not. Spending just a few weeks understanding very elementary proving techniques, learning all of the abstract terminology and rules about sets, logic, etc., will be truly invaluable to you.
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a note i got on Bartle
- Introduction to Real Analysis, Third Edition*- Robert G. Bartle and Donald R. Sherbert - Wiley 1999
[Way better than Pugh. Don't let real analysis be your first proofing class - do your first proofs in elementary number theory or geometry, then when you have a repertoire of proofing tools and some skill in proofing, then take real analysis. You cannot learn proofing and real analysis at the same time. First learn to proof, then take real analysis. If not you will be miserable]
Nice Preparation before Real Analysis might be:
[a. Polya - How to Solve It - [problem solving strategies]
[b. Velleman - How to Prove It - [technique to work out proofs]
[c. Bryant - Yet Another Introduction to Analysis [a good grasp of fundamentals in analysis]
[Plough through Bartle first, then consult Rudin. It's a bit easier that way.]
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and...
- The Way of Analysis (Jones and Bartlett Books in Mathematics)*- Robert S. Strichartz
[This textbook on real analysis is intended for a one- or two-semester course at the undergraduate or beginning graduate level. It gives a thorough account of real analysis in one or several variables, from the construction of the real number system to an introduction to the Lebesgue integral. Written in a lively and informal style, the text provides proofs of all the main results, as well as motivations, examples, applications, exercises, and formal chapter summaries.]
[This is the kind of textbook you can bring with you on a car trip and easily study along the way. It takes an informal writing style and from the beginning is focused on making sure you, as the reader, understand not just the theorems and proofs, but the concepts of real analysis as well. Every new idea is given not only with a What or a How, but with a Why as well, preparing the reader to ask themselves the same questions as they progress further.]
[This is not to say the book is without rigor though. The theorems and the proofs are still there, just enriched by the other material contained within the book, and anyone mastering this book will be well prepared for future analysis courses, both mathematically and in their way of thinking about the subject.]
[Good for novices in mathematics]
Strichartz's book contains many clear explanations, and most importantly, contains informal discussions which reveal the motivations for the definitions and proofs. I believe the 'informalness' of the book with the insights make this book a very appropriate text for those taking their first rigorous mathematics class. And this text is definitely much better than many of the texts that target that audience.]
[The format of the book is more disorganized than the standard texts like Rudin, but makes it more likely that it will be read and thoroughly digested, instead of sitting on the shelf.]
[This is certainly the most intuitive Analysis book on the market. It is well written and the author presents the proofs in a way that should be accessable to most readers. He usually tries to use similar proof techniques over and over again giving the student the practice he needs and seldom uses the rabbit in a hat style some other authors seem to prefer. Although these arguments make this book well suited for self-study, lack of solutions to the exercises is annoying. In any case this book offers a nice change of pace to the standard terse presentation of most Analysis books.]
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- Elementary Analysis: The Theory of Calculus (Hardcover) - Kenneth A. Ross - Springer 2003 - 273 pages - [originally 1980]
[Designed for students having no previous experience with rigorous proofs, this text on analysis can be used immediately following standard calculus courses. It is highly recommended for anyone planning to study advanced analysis, e.g., complex variables, differential equations, Fourier analysis, numerical analysis, several variable calculus]
[The style of this book is a bit similar to Spivak's Calculus in that the author is a bit wordy. I find Ross' presentation more direct and less pretentious than Spivak - and far less intimidating.]
[This is definitely the best introductory analysis book I know of for self-study. A student who masters the material in this book will be well prepared to tackle Rudin and other classic works in real analysis.]
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