So I want to learn a martial art.

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The discussion centers on the interest in learning martial arts for fitness, agility, and self-defense. Participants express skepticism about the effectiveness of martial arts in real-life confrontations, particularly against armed attackers, emphasizing that traditional training may not prepare individuals for unpredictable street fights. Many suggest that while martial arts can improve physical fitness and provide some self-defense skills, they should not be relied upon as a primary means of protection. Mixed martial arts (MMA), Muay Thai, and boxing are recommended for those seeking practical self-defense skills, as they incorporate both striking and grappling techniques. Judo is also mentioned as effective, particularly for its ground-fighting aspects. The conversation highlights the importance of sparring in training to prepare for real situations, while also stressing the need for situational awareness and avoidance of conflict when possible. Overall, the consensus is that martial arts can be beneficial for personal development and fitness, but one should not expect them to guarantee safety in dangerous situations.
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I'm probably not going to have time this summer to learn a martial art, but I've been considering it for a while. The next time I have a chance, I think I am going to take one up.

Does anyone have any suggestions for a particular martial art. I want one that will be able to increase my agility and endurance and I also want to be able to use it to defend myself if need be.(I guess all martial arts fall under this category. I just know I heard stuff about Judo and how its not really meant to be used in actual fights etc. Hopefully I won't be getting into too many fights, but you know, just in case.:rolleyes: )
 
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I would not recommend using martial arts to defend yourself unles you want to get yourself hurt. Block kick punch won't do you much good against a gun or knife in the hands of a crazy. When you take karate the guys always stabbing at you and you grab his hand and twist it and its all so nice and controlled. Id like to see you block the guy that comes at you and then stealthily takes out a knife and hacks like a nut.
 
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cyrusabdollahi said:
I would not recommend using martial arts to defend yourself unles you want to get yourself hurt. Block kick punch won't do you much good against a gun or knife in the hands of a crazy. When you take karate the guys always stabbing at you and you grab his hand and twist it and its all so nice an controlled. Id like to see you block the guy that comes at you and then stealthily takes out a knife and hacks like a nut.

Good point. I still would like to learn one though, for several reasons..I would just like to know one... Also, its not like it can hurt to know a martial art.
 
Learn one if you want to, I used to do it when I was a kid. Now I don't care for it. Theres nothing wrong with it, its just that I would not use it to defend myself.

If someone were coming at me at the bar, I wouldn't go HIYAAA block block block kick kick....id probably just grab a bar stool and bash his head in with it (and hed probably do that to you too).
 
cyrusabdollahi said:
I would not recommend using martial arts to defend yourself unles you want to get yourself hurt. Block kick punch won't do you much good against a gun or knife in the hands of a crazy. When you take karate the guys always stabbing at you and you grab his hand and twist it and its all so nice an controlled. Id like to see you block the guy that comes at you and then stealthily takes out a knife and hacks like a nut.

Man, you have no idea what you're talking about.
 
cyrusabdollahi said:
Learn one if you want to, I used to do it when I was a kid. Now I don't care for it. Theres nothing wrong with it, its just that I would not use it to defend myself.

If someone were coming at me at the bar, I wouldn't go HIYAAA block block block kick kick....id probably just grab a bar stool and bash his head in with it (and hed probably do that to you too).

Again, you know nothing.
 
Thanks, chuck norris.

Unless your really, really good at martial arts. You an't going to defend yourself against an attacker.
 
Any type of mixed martial arts would work well. But then again you have to consider that getting hit in the head so much may not be too productive for your academics ;)
 
I still think it can't hurt to know a martial art. Yes, that crazy guy with a knife probably is not going to throw a controlled blow, but still martial arts teach you how to block blows in general. I can't imagine I wouldn't be a tiny bit better off knowing a martial art.
 
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Ok, if you want to learn martial arts, stay away from Judo and Karate and things like that. They are made for kids and idiots who watch movies.

First thing is first. Don't listen to people who know nothing about it at all. I know nothing, but will just show you where to get started. I have a friend who fights in tournaments like UFC style. Let me tell you that I would never attempt fighting him even with a knife in my hand. When you go to a bar, it's rare that fights involve weapons like knives and guns. So, technically, you can defend yourself for sure in those kind of risks.

Second, why wouldn't I fight my friend with a knife in my hand? Because he is trained to deal will such things and keep his cool and even withstand PAIN from a potential stab. Cyrus makes it sound like you can just run up to a guy and stab them. It's not that easy at all. I doubt Cyrus ever held a knife before because stabbing someone who is trained is not ****ing easy in no way shape or form.

Third, you are trained like I said. My friend will openly let people kick him in the leg as hard you can or punch in the abs as hard as you can. They literally train to take pain and a lot of hits. When he first started, he said he always came home with full of bruises. Again, he chose to train to win. You can choose to train without all the hardcore stuff, but after awhile, you will get to where he is which isn't even that far. I couldn't imagine fighting someone even more advanced than him.

Anyways, this forum is the best place to start that I know of.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/forumdisplay.php?f=87

Go on and search for other beginner topics. Don't just start another thread about it.
 
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Beeza said:
Any type of mixed martial arts would work well. But then again you have to consider that getting hit in the head so much may not be too productive for your academics ;)

Thanks for the advice. I guess I should consider how the head blows would affect me:smile:
 
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JasonRox said:
Ok, if you want to learn martial arts, stay away from Judo and Karate and things like that. They are made for kids and idiots who watch movies.

First thing is first. Don't listen to people who know nothing about it at all. I know nothing, but will just show you where to get started. I have a friend who fights in tournaments like UFC style. Let me tell you that I would never attempt fighting him even with a knife in my hand. When you go to a bar, it's rare that fights involve weapons like knives and guns. So, technically, you can defend yourself for sure in those kind of risks.

Second, why wouldn't I fight my friend with a knife in my hand? Because he is trained to deal will such things and keep his cool and even withstand PAIN from a potential stab. Cyrus makes it sound like you can just run up to a guy and stab them. It's not that easy at all. I doubt Cyrus ever held a knife before because stabbing someone who is trained is not ****ing easy in no way shape or form.

Third, you are trained like I said. My friend will openly let people kick him in the leg as hard you can or punch in the abs as hard as you can. They literally train to take pain and a lot of hits. When he first started, he said he always came home with full of bruises. Again, he chose to train to win. You can choose to train without all the hardcore stuff, but after awhile, you will get to where he is which isn't even that far. I couldn't imagine fighting someone even more advanced than him.

Anyways, this forum is the best place to start that I know of.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/forumdisplay.php?f=87

Go on and search for other beginner topics. Don't just start another thread about it.

Thanks alot, Jason. I'll check out the forum. Do you know what arts your friend is trained in?
 
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Jason Rox said:
Don't listen to people who know nothing about it at all. I know nothing, but will just show you where to get started.

So why should we listen to you then?

I thought I said I did karate long time ago. You're an idiot man.
 
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cyrusabdollahi said:
So why should we listen to you then?

I thought I said I did karate long time ago. You're an idiot man.

Karate as a kid doesn't even count. They don't even teach real karate to kids. I did it too... big deal.
 
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G01 said:
Thanks alot, Jason. I'll check out the forum. Do you know what arts your friend is trained in?

He does Muay Thai. I would personally say that's the best for self-defense because it's mostly grappling base. But personally, I would just look for a MMA training place and they will train you on 1 to 2 things like a grappling martial arts and a bit of striking martial arts. If you live in a big city, there should be a MMA studio somewhere.
 
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I will be in a big city Area this summer, maybe I'll check that out.
 
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JasonRox said:
Karate as a kid doesn't even count. They don't even teach real karate to kids. I did it too... big deal.

Oh right, they teach 'fake' karate because the class had adults in it as well. Just stop putting your own foot in your mouth every post, will you?


I said do martial arts if you enjoy it and find it fun; but, don't count on using it to save your life unless you're really really good. Read what I write next time chuck.
 
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Have you ever seen this guys videos before?



This is how people on the street will fight you, dirty.
 
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Take Jeet Kune Do. Founded by Bruce Lee.

History aside, it is probably the most practical and possibly most powerful art. I am in tae kwon do myself
 
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I think that cyrus' point is that most people never achieve "master" status and become overly confident in their abilities. I love the Indiana Jones movie where Harrison Ford is attacked by the sword fighting assasin and he just blows him away with his gun. :biggrin:

I think taking a martial arts class just for the balance, agility etc... would be a good thing. Go1 doesn't seem to have any ideas of gaining any special abilities, he's quite grounded.
 
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Evo said:
I think that cyrus' point is that most people never achieve "master" status and become overly confident in their abilities. I love the Indiana Jones movie where Harrison Ford is attacked by the sword fighting assasin and he just blows him away with his gun. :biggrin:

haha

the legend is that entire scene was supposed to be him taking out his whip and fancily pulling the swords out of his hands, but he was tired and grumpy from a long day of shooting so he just whipped out his gun and ended it instead
 
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Ki Man said:
haha

the legend is that entire scene was supposed to be him taking out his whip and fancily pulling the swords out of his hands, but he was tired and grumpy from a long day of shooting so he just whipped out his gun and ended it instead
That's pretty much what I heard, that he was sick that day and just decided to shoot the guy and end the scene. It was great. :biggrin:
 
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Evo said:
I think taking a martial arts class just for the balance, agility etc... would be a good thing. Go1 doesn't seem to have any ideas of gaining any special abilities, he's quite grounded.

Evo, So your telling me I won't be able to become Batman!??!:biggrin:

In all seriousness though, some of my reasons for wanting to learn a martial art are:

1. A way to workout that involves mental training as well as physical.

2. Boost my agility.

3. Basic self defense, since, while I consider myself to be somewhat strong, I have no idea how to handle an attacker, and learning a martial art can not hurt in this regard.
 
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I can't see any reason to not take classes, it's all positive in my opinion.

The company I worked for years ago gave all of the women free instruction on self defense and it was great. There are little tricks you can use in the right situation that will give you just enough of an edge to throw off an unarmed attacker, which a lot of times happens to women because the assailant assumes the woman is an easy target and is often spur of the moment.

Even if you learn to be more observant and obtain quicker responses, you may be able to avoid getting hit by that barstool, it's not just about fighting back, it can be about not becoming a target in the first place.

Edit: Oh, sorry to be the one to tell you no superpowers. :redface: But wait, Batman didn't have superpowers he had special equipment and Robin had nothing except the ability to say "HOLY COW BATMAN!". Or perhaps it was more bat oriented.
 
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there are a couple different kinds of fighting. there is the fight to kill that involves guns, knives, large things made of metal, broken glass, groin strikes, eye gouges, throat strikes, chokes and small join manipulation. if someone is trying to murder you or if your trying to murder someone, these are the most common weapons/attacks that are going to be used. these fights don't last long because the first person to land an attack usually screws up the other guy to the point where they can hardly fight any more. martial arts will help you a lot with all these things except the guns, and depending on how close you are to the person, martial arts could still help you. mind you, if you are expecting to get into a fight like this, i would suggest moving out of town because you'll be much better off. however, what your looking for is not a martial art, but a self defense course. mind you in a self defense course, they are going to teach you to crush some eyes and throats like you wouldn't believe, but they won't get you in shape or otherwise help you impress women (even drunk chicks are going to be afraid of you if you make someone lose 1/2 their blood supply).


i think you mostly just want to get in shape and at the same time, be able to show some drunk bastard who's boss. karate will get you in shape but unfortunately, most of the training does not center around sparing, but on katas, breaking boards and other repetitive stuff. judo will help you get in shape but again, judo is about being about to beat other judo guys. i think what your looking for is defiantly something more like boxing/kickboxing/muai thai/MMA.

boxing will definitely get you in shape and help you knock out most jokers that give you crap. boxing is fairly main stream so there are bound to be lots of gyms around that you can check out and see if they are the right combination of getting in shape/kicking a&*/getting beat up/

kickboxing is another one that can get you in shape. naturaly, kickboxing will also get your lower half in good shape too, so that's a plus. kickboxing is usually split into two different types though. there is the aerobic kickboxing and the competitive kickboxing. the aerobic stuff is a good way to meet chicks (this is what your getting in shape for, right?) but really doesn't apply too much to your level of a&* kicker since aerobic kickboxing is more of an aerobic workout that involves kicks and punches. note that with the aerobic kickboxing, you have almost a zero chance of getting black eyes, bruised ribs, bloody noses, or concussions. competitive kickboxing is quite different though. in competitive kickboxing its all about training to fight, so you are likely to get in shape faster and collect a nice set of bruises along the way. competitive kickboxing will raise you a&* kicking level quite a lot too.

muai thai is another vary manly way to get in shape. muai thai is like kickboxing but includes the use of elbows and knees. generally, you have the hard core guys in here whom are looking for top notch a&* kicking. expect to get in shape fast in muai thai but also count on getting some knees and elbows in your nose (and learning how to put your's in other peoples noses)

and finally we come to the MMA or Mixed Martial Arts. MMA has become quite popular lately because of the UFC. basically MMA is all about kicking the most a&* without leaving the permanent damage that would result from lots of stitches, brain damage, mangled fingers, crushed eyes, or crushed testicles. MMA athletes are some of the most physically fit people in the world, but they break their noses like crazy.
 
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Thanks a lot for the advice. I guess this all started with my weight training course I took a while back.

I was one of the strongest guys in the class, since I have been weightlifting since junior high, but I feel these other guys, if for some reason they tried to fight me(i don't think of myself as the one starting fights), I would get the crap kicked out of me because I'm not agile and would have no idea what I was doing.

I should really learn some basic defense moves if not from a martial art class, from somewhere. This advice can really apply to anyone, even if your not one to pick fights, that doesn't mean you won't ever be in a situation where you may be forced to have to defend yourself.
 
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Well, you look like one pretty mean order of fries. I wouldn't mess with you.
 
  • #28
The goatee makes me look meaner than I am.:biggrin:

Ask MIH if you don't believe me, Frylock (my avatar) is the nerd in "Aqua Teen Hunger Force."
 
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%notice: if statement

{Just because martial arts is 'useless' against a gun/knife doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. It's one way to keep you in shape, it trains balance and speed. If you're actually serious about it, even if you don't attain 'master' status, you're probability of being able to defend yourself is better}

IF

{you're observant enough to only use your physical training when you don't have any other options.}

%I say physical training because that shouldn't be all that's taught in a good martial arts class. Diplomacy, philosophy, and respect are just a few of the important concepts that are involved in traditional martial arts. It's not about not getting mugged or becoming the local vigilante.

To the OP: Bruce Lee had an excellent concept of Gung Fu (Kung Fu) that went back to its origin.

As the schools of Gung Fu progressed and fissioned, different styles began adapting just yin or just yang, being called 'hard' or 'soft' styles.

Bruce Lee brought the two basic concepts back together (drawing on a metaphor of water as the supreme martial artist... because it has surface tension and can crush things, but also can simply 'dodge' your hand if you're going slow enough)

Bruce Lee believed that when fighting an opponent (and not just physically fighting, it starts with diplomacy remember), a combination of 'soft' and 'hard' style is the best. You have to know when to go with your opponent and when to go against them, and that choosing to do only one or the other is faulty.

Also, if you find a good class that spends a lot of time sparring, you get to practice against actual opponent moves and styles, and not trained, repetitive moves. Sparring is very important. If you don't spar, then you're like a musician who can read music but can't improvise.
 
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G01 said:
This advice can really apply to anyone, even if your not one to pick fights, that doesn't mean you won't ever be in a situation where you may be forced to have to defend yourself.

The funny part is that I knew a guy who was a good boxer (well I knew a few) and whenever like someone would try to start a fight with his friends or with him or anything of the sort, he would just turn around and run. If he ever got caught around a public fight or anything, whether his fault or not, his license was on the line.
 
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JasonRox said:
The funny part is that I knew a guy who was a good boxer (well I knew a few) and whenever like someone would try to start a fight with his friends or with him or anything of the sort, he would just turn around and run. If he ever got caught around a public fight or anything, whether his fault or not, his license was on the line.

that had to have sucked for that guy.
 
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JasonRox said:
The funny part is that I knew a guy who was a good boxer (well I knew a few) and whenever like someone would try to start a fight with his friends or with him or anything of the sort, he would just turn around and run. If he ever got caught around a public fight or anything, whether his fault or not, his license was on the line.

Yeah, I agree with him that its in your best interest to stay out of fights, whether for a license, reputation etc. I am just worried about a situation where I'm stuck and I would need some kind of self defense to stun the aggressor in order to let me get away or to prevent an attack from hitting me. As I said, I'm not one to start fights, nor do I think it would be enjoyable to be in them. I just want to be able to protect myself, in case I can't escape the situation.
 
  • #33
Krav Maga for self defense, and learn Parkour to run away. Only do the former if you can't do the latter.
 
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Evo said:
Edit: Oh, sorry to be the one to tell you no superpowers. :redface: But wait, Batman didn't have superpowers he had special equipment and Robin had nothing except the ability to say "HOLY COW BATMAN!". Or perhaps it was more bat oriented.

I always thought that $50 billion was his super power? :confused:
 
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G01 said:
I'm probably not going to have time this summer to learn a martial art, but I've been considering it for a while. The next time I have a chance, I think I am going to take one up.

Does anyone have any suggestions for a particular martial art. I want one that will be able to increase my agility and endurance and I also want to be able to use it to defend myself if need be.(I guess all martial arts fall under this category. I just know I heard stuff about Judo and how its not really meant to be used in actual fights etc. Hopefully I won't be getting into too many fights, but you know, just in case.:rolleyes: )

Martial arts (the good kind with full-resistance sparring) is overkill for fights i.e. high school, macho 1 on 1 fights and it's not THAT effective in a true self-defense situation i.e. against multiple opponents, knife (You'll feel the knife before you see it and you'll die if your attacker wants you dead), gun.

If you still want to learn an art for self-defense I'd recommend staying away from karate, taekwando, aikido and kung-fu. Though I highly disagree with one of the above poster's suggestion of staying away from judo. Judo is highly effective on the streets and in MMA (bjj, the basis of MMA is basically judo with a focus on the ground). That and boxing would be great. Or bjj and muay thai (though much more expensive combo).

And since I'm a judo whore, here are a few clips from competition/mma:

http://www.dailymotion.com/relevance/search/judo%2Bmma/video/xoxyl_judo-in-mma


(Warning: May contain broken limbs and magic pants)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wjna_GUg8Y&mode=related&search=
 
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  • #37
Parkour seems like it can be practiced anywhere. Maybe I'll occupy myself with that.
 
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Evo said:
Edit: Oh, sorry to be the one to tell you no superpowers. :redface: But wait, Batman didn't have superpowers he had special equipment and Robin had nothing except the ability to say "HOLY COW BATMAN!". Or perhaps it was more bat oriented.

Yes, looks like I'll have to put off my plans to become a vigilante/physicist until I fulfill my plans to get ridiculously rich...WHAT! My plans are COMPLETELY plausible!:wink:
 
  • #39
Martial arts teach several valuable techniques for fighting applicable in many forms of street fights.

Stances for balance, sliding your feet instead of stepping to keep from tripping, snapping kicks and punchs quickly out and back to keep your leg or arm from hanging out where an opponent can grab it and throw you down, vulnerable points to attack to disable an opponent so you can run, methods to shake free when grabbed, confidence so you don't look like a target, just knowing how to stand if attacked head (1 on 1) on can take that moment of confusion and help free you up for what is coming next (present as little target as possible, feet in a balanced grounded position, arms legs at ready to do something, etc).

The problem with martial arts is when it makes a person artificially confident and they stay to fight when they should avoid one. A good teacher will tell him to avoid a fight whenever possible.

As for becoming a master, I was taught that a black belt holder uses the same form of punch or kick that is taught to a beginner. He or she then learns other techniques, but continues to practice the beginner techniques. In the martial art I learned, (I forget the name it's been a few years) we start at no belt, then get a white belt. Our teacher said, that the concept of a black belt is a white belt that has darkened from use. Basically, a beginner can obtain master level ability at the few techniques they know, if they work at them.

My nephew is about 14 years old, less than 5 feet tall and less than 100 pounds. He is a black belt martial arts champion who has beaten adults in tournaments. He probably would have been a prime candidate for picking on, being small and studious, but trust me, no one messes with him.
 
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the best self defense is to learn not to be in the wrong place at the wrong time, which usually involves bars.

I used to fancy myself pretty tough (over 40 years ago), and one night took on a whole gang of townies at once, one of whom sufficed to whomp me silly. It helped him that I was totally drunk.

I decided after that, fighting was not a macho game, but a serious affair to be engaged in only when necessary. That was my last fight, 40 years ago.

After that I was a meat lugger for a few years and became much stronger than before, but never fought. my friends at the meat market carried knives and guns and fought regularly, and even died. actually i seldom got challenged anymore in my end of town. for my friends it was different.

ill tell you anyone who got in a fight with one of them, martial arts or not, was in for a serious experience. but they also fought only when attacked since they knew the consequences. my boss once singlehandedly defeated 7 men armed with meat hooks and irons, and threw them down the stairs for trying to smash up his place for business competition reasons.

i also have a friend who was a martial arts champion, but it just caused him to be more and more bold in seeking fights, until finally a large gang of opponents beat him silly.

there is a little book i read my kids on the subject for children called "a bundle of sticks".

There is a scene in there where a rough crude guy in a truck opens his door into one of the good guys cars at a drive in and then complains to the victim about his clumsiness in being in the way of the door, and offers to fight him.

the good guy (a martial arts instructor) calmly points out that the big guy is fat and out of shape and that his friend smokes cigarettes, and that probably they do not really want to start a fight. so why don't they all just go inside and eat their burgers.

the two blokes in the truck look at him like he's nuts, but don't fight. then the good guy leads the student inside for a burger.

i guess the moral of the story is that it does help ones confidence to know martial arts or to be strong, but the real lesson is not to fight unless attacked. so the guy who ran at every sign of a fight was very wise.

my friend "big man", a 300 pound lugger who carried a knife and a gun, and who loved a good fight, went to prison for 10 years for killing some idiots with his knife who attacked him, and subsequently got so out of shape in prison he died of a heart attack.

i loved him, and he was a good man, but hanging out in bars and fighting the morons you meet there ultimately killed him.

read sometime the autobiography of malcolm x who realized in his job as a railroad porter that he could defeat an opponent just with his brains. or if you really want to get on another level, read the bible about what hapened when saul sent soldiers to capture david while he was living with the prophet samuel.

when the armed soldiers vcame near the camp of samuel, they laid down their spears and sang hymns and praised god. even saul himself had the same experience when frustrated he went himself.

there are many "fights" in life, street thugs are the easiest to avoid, at least once you get out of public high school in certain parts of the US. The methods needed vary, in fighting with administrators, dishonest politicians, or police, unscrupulous business people. There are certain methods that work in more situations than others and those should be learned as soon as possible.

notice the subtitle of the original works on judo by jigoro kano, is "the art of yielding".
 
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and if you do fight, make sure you are in the right. if you pick on someone for the wrong reasons they fight much harder. Even a small female cat or dog will fight insanely against a much larger predator to defend their family.
 
  • #42
As Evo alluded, just having the agility to duck at the right time can be as important as knowing how to throw a punch.

When first learning a martial art, you're unlikely to learn enough to disarm someone attacking you with a weapon, but with practice, you should learn something about how to read their body language to anticipate their moves just to get out of the way faster. Of course, nobody is good enough to block a bullet, but you may learn some escape moves if someone has a knife. Again, that will require a lot more practice before you reach that level of mastery. But, in the meantime, if you currently know nothing about defending yourself, you'll certainly learn more than that, especially if it comes to a fist fight.

And, hopefully, part of your training will be knowing when NOT to fight as well, and to instead use discipline and diplomacy to avoid the fight.

But, even if you learn NOTHING about self defense, you'll still get the other things you're looking for...a good form of exercise that will develop agility. A lot of people do it just for the fun of the exercise.
 
  • #43
I've always been impressed with Jiu-Jutsu. Some martial arts are strength based. They rely on the power of an attack to defeat the opponent. Jiu-Jutsu and many other grappling martial arts are skill based. A smaller person can defeat a larger, more powerful opponent with a simple finger lock.

A grappling style is probably better for resolving a physical conflict without smashing someone into submission. The initiator of the fight will probably be bigger than you anyway, or come at you when you aren't prepared. Grappling can subdue them with a better chance that nobody is seriously injured. Don't forget that bullies usually have like-minded buddies.

But really, choose a martial art that appeals to you. Don't expect a martial art to make you more safe than you are now. In an unavoidable situation it may be better to take the punch and walk away with your humility than to fight back with your own hubris. That kind of force should be reserved for when someone's life is in potential danger.

[Even if you are a UFC champion and can crush 5 men in a bar fight, you can't dodge bullets. Don't give someone a reason to escalate a confrontation to that level. You may not be the only one that gets injured as a result.]
 
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I guess I'll chime in too. But first, repeat after me:

- There is no one perfect school.
- There is no one perfect "art".
- There is no such thing as a "self defense system."
- Tournaments are evil and a load of crap.
- There is no way to account for every situation.

The best realization you can make is that you are not going to be proficient in any way shape nor form after one summer of training. It will take a summer for your body to adapt to learning how to move and the different positions you get put in. Would you tell someone they could "defend themselves" in the physics or math worlds by taking summer school? You will get an introduction and some workouts. That's it. Don't delude yourself or give into the the snake oil salesmen who will tell you otherwise.

* As far as schools are concerned: Always watch a class before signing any contract. Just sit and watch. Watch what they spend their time on. Watch how they teach. Pay attention to what they put emphasis on. Make sure they put the gloves on and spar. Not the tippy-tappy tournament crap that most schools do (ahem...tae-kwon-do...cough). You want something that has real sparring. There will always be rules to keep a safe environment, but you don't want your sparring to be a game of who can touch the other person first.

* Look for references of teachers and follow up with them. The MA community is rife with charlatans that have no problem with giving themselves rank and paying for/selling rank. Also pay attention to what they teach. A teacher that teaches 5 different styles with a hundred blackbelts and tons of experience is an immediate red flag.

* I have a full contact karate background. I highly recommend that you find a place that teaches the stand up game as well as the ground game. You have to have both in your arsenal. There are tons of morons out there that will tell you that the ground stuff is not important because they can use their deadly skillz way before it ever gets to the ground. That's BS. I would estimate that 90% of "accomplished" martial artists would get schooled hard by a high school wrestler if it ever gets to the ground (and believe me, it will). It's a tremendous addition to your workout (and you will work hard) and, I think, extremely fascinating once you really get into it.

Everything has pros and cons to it. The big thing is to not get overconfident, like Artman said, and not to be disillusioned by the instructor. Everything that is uttered in a dojo or gym is to be taken as anecdotal at best.

Good luck.
 
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Evo said:
I think that cyrus' point is that most people never achieve "master" status and become overly confident in their abilities. I love the Indiana Jones movie where Harrison Ford is attacked by the sword fighting assasin and he just blows him away with his gun. :biggrin:

I think taking a martial arts class just for the balance, agility etc... would be a good thing. Go1 doesn't seem to have any ideas of gaining any special abilities, he's quite grounded.
I heard that there was actually an elaborate fight sequence planned for that scene, but Harrison was sick that day, so instead they had him draw his gun and shoot the guy dead.
 
  • #46
The first few posts --> :smile: :smile: :smile:

The best way to defend yourself is to run if you can. Unless you have to protect your reltives or your girlfriend or anyone close to you. I guess the adrenaline does most of the job for you.

GO1, don't make a big deal out of what to start to train - most of people do. Just start to train something, and if you don't like it, you can easily switch to something else. Your priority is to engage with regular physical activity, which is the main benefit of martial arts training.

And btw, it's interesting that, always and everywhere where a martial arts discussion is being put up, everyone has so many smart things to say. Hence, I'll shut up. :-p
 
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I agree with most of FredGarvins post. My daughter has been studying Martial Arts for about 8 years now. She has 2nd degree black belts from two Tae Kwon Do schools and has studied mixed martial arts. Sure she can kick butts but that's not the goal of most Martial Arts programs. Martial Arts trains your mind as much as your body. I'd say, if you really want to learn, you have to be very dedicated; for many years.
 
  • #48
hear hear, and the wisest advice is still to run, i.e. avoid fights. fighting is not a sport or a game. there are a lot of strange people out there.

when i was 15 years old i already knew how to break a mans neck and assasinate someone quietly, from reading WWII hand to hand combat books.

In the real world people do not play by the rules. learn to defend yourself, do not be a victim, and then stay out of trouble.

I am not an expert, but i have actually been in a fight, not just a school.
 
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  • #49
mathwonk said:
hear hear, and the wisest advice is still to run, i.e. avoid fights. fighting is not a sport or a game. there are a lot of strange people out there.

when i was 15 years old i already knew how to break a mans neck and assasinate someone quietly, from reading hand to hand combat books.

In the real world people do not play by the rules. learn to defend yourself, and then stay out of trouble.

Didn't you mention bars a hot spot for fights? Friends and I go all the time, and we never seen a fight break out yet. What bars have you been going to? We go to busiest bars in the region, which means we actually drive out of town to a bar that normally has 1000-2500 people in it.
 
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well maybe i was careless about the bars i chose. i just went into anyone i found. but that was a long time ago. i still suggest that alcohol is related to fights. i am glad you have a nice bar circuit, maybe thigns hve chnged in 40 years. maybe much of my advice on this matter is passe. i went into working mens bars. but college bars were just as bad. drunks get kind of difficult wherever they are. i would be happy to think todays students are more responsible. i admit i seldom hear about trouble in local bars, but i stay out of them anyway. i don't need rto be right. i may be wrong. i was just trying to be helpful. or maybe i was reliving a lost youth. feel free to ignore it.

wow i have never seen a bar with even 100 people in it. i have gotten into trouble in a bar with 5 people in it. me the bartender and 3 townies who didnt like my beard. this big stupid guy threw his arms over the back of his booth and said something, i forget what, but i remember thinking "ill be glad tomorrow if i pop this punk." but when youre drinking it is not that easy to make good contact, so it spilled out into the street.if you believe any of this, i have some very valuable comic books to sell, no kidding.
 
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