TrickyDicky said:
Yes, that's my point. That is the only difference and the one that gives rise to many of the properties of GR, like the different type of geodesics (null, timelike..), the causal structure, the geodesic incompleteness and the singularities, etc...
But if that difference is obviated by the smooth manifold structure that turns pseudosemimetrics spaces into metric spaces how do we justify mathematically all those properties associated to the pseudosemimetricity that are such important features of GR?
I'm not really sure what you're getting at. None of this causes a problem for GR. GR only cares about the metric tensor; whether it integrates into any global structure is bonus.
When we say some space is a "manifold", all we mean is that it has certain topological properties. Topology cares about how the various points in a set are connected. It is completely agnostic as to the concept of those points having any "distance" defined between them.
A manifold is just some space that can be covered by open sets, each of which looks just like an open set of R^n. By "looks just like", I mean that the points in the open set U on the manifold are connected to each other the same way as the points in the open set V of R^n. At no point do I care about the Euclidean distance which is possible to define in R^n; it's irrelevant.
Now, an
added fact is that I
can use the natural Euclidean distance in R^n to define a notion of distance on the manifold. One uses the usual tangent space construction to define a Riemannian metric tensor (turning our manifold into a Riemannian manifold). This metric tensor can be integrated to obtain a global distance function, turning our Riemannian manifold into a metric space. (One can also define metric spaces which are not manifolds, so in fact this object is
both a Riemannian manifold
and a metric space, those being independent properties).
Metric spaces have the additional property that the distance function can be used to define a topology. That is, open sets can be defined as the interiors of metric balls. It happens that when we do this to a Riemannian manifold, the topology induced by the metric structure agrees with the topology we already had from the manifold structure. This is not hard to prove.
But these concepts do not carry over to the pseudo-Riemannian case. As you have pointed out, a pseudo-Riemannian metric tensor does not integrate to a distance function, for one. Whatever object a pseudo-Riemannian metric integrates to, it must fail to satisfy the distinguishability axiom,
d(x,y) = 0 \; \text{iff} \; x = y,
and hence, the topology induced by such a distance function will
not agree with the topology we already have from the manifold structure. This is easy to see in flat Minkowski space, whose topology is that of R^4.
There is no reason to
expect a pseudo-Riemannian metric tensor to induce a topology that agrees with the one already present, because the theorem in the Riemannian case relies upon the details of all the axioms. Just because "pseudo-Riemannian metric tensor" contains the words "Riemannian metric tensor" does not mean you can borrow theorems and expect them to still be true.