Never. There are three events happening in the obvious chronological order:
1) First, radio signal leaves earth;
2) 13 minutes after #1, radio signal reaches ship and turns light on so light signal leaves ship;
3) 13 minutes after #2 light from ship reaches your telescope so you see it.
Both the visible light and the radio waves are electromagnetic radiation traveling at speed ##c, so it takes 13 minutes for the radio waves to travel from Earth to ship, and 13 minutes after the light turns on for the light to travel back to earth. The same thing would happen if the radio receiver and the light were in the same rom as you, just a meter or so away - the only difference is that light travels so quickly that we don’t notice the few nanoseconds of time difference between when something happens across the room and when we see it.
The situation you’re describing is equivalent to shining a laser at a mirror on the ship and timing how long it takes for the reflected light to get back to you.