Sagittarius A-Star said:
Assume, the traveling twin just came back from Alpha Centauri and both twins are now sitting in a room on Earth with a constant distance of 1.5 meters from each other in their common restframe. Then their age difference is still frame-dependent.
Does the age difference in their common rest frame have no physical significance?
Let's focus on invariant quantities: quantities that are the same in all (inertial) reference frames. If, by an abstraction, we consider two clocks to be at the same spacetime location, then the difference in their readings is an invariant quantity. All reference frames will agree.
In the twin paradox, it's normally considered that when the traveller arrives back on Earth the difference in their ages can be measured and is a meaningful, invariant quantity.
Of course, you can argue that two clocks (or people) are never at exactly the same spacetime location. Einstein actually covers this in the 1905 paper in a footnote:
We shall not here discuss the inexactitude which lurks in the concept of simultaneity of two events at approximately the same place, which can only be removed by an abstraction.
One thing you could do is put some sort of bound on the lack of simultaneity between two events: two nearby clocks recording some time. Let's assume they are ##1m## apart and synchronised in their mutual rest frame. The maximum loss of synchronisation is ##\pm \frac{1m}{c}##. Which can be taken to negligible in terms of the difference involving years.
Now, if we take the intermediate stop at Alpha Centauri, four light years from Earth. In the Earth/AC rest frame we have synchronised clocks at Earth and AC reading 5 years. And we have the traveller's clock at AC reading 3 years. Depending on the reference frame we have maximum loss of synchronisation of the Earth/AC clocks of ##\pm 4## years. This means that there is no absolute sense that the Earth twin is older than the traveller "when" the traveller reaches AC. When the traveller reaches Alpha Centauri, the Earth twin's age is between 1 and 9 years, depending on the reference frame.
This is where, again, the relativity of simultaneity is critical and we cannot do SR with a "time-dilation-is-all-there-is" approach.
Finally, to emphasise this point, let's analyse the outward leg in a frame in which the Earth and AC are moving at ##0.9c##, with the Earth "leading". In this frame when the traveller accelerates away from Earth he/she slows down and is less time dilated for the entire outward journey. In this frame, the traveller is
older than the Earth twin when he/she reaches AC. If it makes any sense to say that.
However, if you study the return leg in this frame as well, then the traveller is more time dilated on the return leg and when they return to Earth you get the same invariant ageing (elapsed proper time) of 10 years and 6 years respectively.