wolram, I think you have attatched some meaning which I don't understand to the words "background independence"a "background METRIC" is a technical device which is employed in some theories and not others.
the ordinary meaning of "background independence" is as a shortened way of saying "background metric independence"
meaning that the theory is one of those that is formulated without using a background metric.
It does NOT mean that in such a theory the UNIVERSE ARISES OUT OF NOTHING

That is way off.
A background metric is a technical specialized thing that you really can do without. People shouldn't make such a big deal.
A theory can be constructed without ever using a background metric and it can STILL have plenty of stuff assumed at the outset for the universe to arise out of.
So you don't have to imagine that because a theory is independent of a background metric it is having the universe arise out of nothing----there will still be varying amounts of gear in the initial assumptions.
I guess you can GENERALIZE the idea of background independence to where you throw out more and more of the initial assumptions, so that it becomes a relative concept------one theory can be MORE B.I. than another (in the generalized sense) if it uses less initial assumptions. But even in that generalized sense you would never get to some ABSOLUTE absence of initial conditions or absolute independence of assumptions.
Every theory has stuff that it assumes as its materials to work with.
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In the most common meaning, where you mean independence of a background metric----the reason quantum gravitists tend to insist on B.I. is basically because 1915 GENERAL RELATIVITY was a B.I. theory. It does not use a background metric.
this means that spacetime in Gen Rel is more dynamic and more free to bend than if a background metric was assumed. With a background metric you can bend SOME but you are more constrained and more pre-determined. You are limited to some (normally small) "perturbations" around the basic shape dictated by that background metric.
So the quantum gravitists have the opinion that a theory that needs a background metric in its formulation is NOT TRUE TO GEN REL
like a starched collar and necktie does not allow as much freedom to your neck. the collar has some preconception of how you are going to be holding your head (which you are only allowed to disagree with slightly, by small perturbations)
like, if your theory is built using a preconceived background metric then you are not really studying NATURE, you are studying your own preconceptions
there is more to the discussion, but that's a starter.
anyway it is not about the universe arising out of nothing