Bandersnatch said:
The surface is accelerating in spacetime. It is most emphatically not accelerating in space. With relativity, you need to start thinking in terms of the former, and forget about the latter.
All of the space dimensions are still a part of space-time, so either way it's a contradiction, as it would still be moving in opposite directions simultaneously.
The only thing significant about space-time is that it ties time together with the other dimensions, so that you can't treat time as being non-influenced by the events in the space dimensions. It does not suddenly change the logic of up or down, left or right, front or back, well, at least not except possibly in the presence of an event horizon of a black hole, but we weren't talking about black holes, so that doesn't matter.
Anyway, classical space plus time, or relativity "space-time" either way, left is left, and right is right, and the north pole is the north pole, and the prime meridian is the prime meridian. Someone could invent another coordinate system for the globe, but it would be a foolish waste of time for the most part, since the existing systems already work well enough, which the GPS system still uses. If one experimenter is at the north pole, and the other at the south, then they are definitely where we think they are, and they happen to be facing in opposite directions, regardless of what coordinate system you try to invent to get around that fact.
I have heard Relativity explanations, read books on the subject, as well as QM and string theory, and watched countless documentaries on it, and have a College text with a hefty chapter or ten on the subject, and I have never once heard of anyone at all giving the sort of explanation that was here given.
Also, the notion that the Earth moves, and so pushes me up, as the Ball falls, by an amount of 5 feet actually contradicts the Equivalence principle, because if I were to actually be accelerated upward for a distance of 5 feet, the amount the Earth would need to move, and consequently push me, I would experience a "jerk" and upward acceleration the moment I dropped the object, not to mention the sudden stop at exactly 5 feet, which I do not experience, but the ball does. More-over, if the object were dropped in a sand box, we could observe the energy dispersed and exploding the sand away, meanwhile I have experienced absolutely no stress or impact on my body in any way, which I should have if I were actually accelerated by the amount required to explain the motion of the ball, and then suddenly stopped and accelerated to halt, simulating the classical "instantaneous acceleration," which is normally attributed to the ball hitting the ground and bringing it to a halt.
I don't understand why this is hard for you guys to see this. The "Moving Target" explanation cannot explain both experiments at the same time, regardless of what you think of the first.