Then I doubt you have studied electrical engineering.Here's two textbooks I often see recommended for freshman/sophomore EE courses:
Electric Circuits, 9th Edition, Nilsson, Riedel, ISBN-13: 978-0-13-611499-4.
Excerpt from p. 320 under the heading "Impedance and Reactance":
Engineering Circuit Analysis, 7th Edition, Hayt, Kemmerly, Durbin, ISBN-13: 978-0-07-286611-7.
Excerpt from p. 387 under the heading "Impedance"

ere's a textbook I used in my first year for my bachelor degree in EE/mechatronics:
Basic Engineering Circuit Analysis, 9th Edition, Irwin, Nelms, ISBN-13: 978-0470-23455-6.
Except from p. 389 under the heading "Impedance and Admittance":I don't claim that these are great, or even good, books. I do claim that they present the basics correctly.
And with regards to the HyperPhysics site:
http://hyperphysics.phy-astr.gsu.edu/hbase/electric/imped.html
You'll notice, under the heading "Impedance":which is what you're taught in EE courses. You should also notice the abundance of complex numbers throughout the rest of that page.
Maybe it's best if we just agree to disagree so we don't derail yet another thread.