Because in a CRT, there is no diffraction taking place.
The narrowness of the slit through which the electrons pass through determines the wideness of the diffraction pattern. If the slit were very narrow, the electrons would leave a very wide diffraction pattern.
The slit itself is what somehow removes information about momentum -- and part of momentum is direction. In a diffraction experiment, this uncertainty in momentum is amplified by the distance to the screen to produce a visible effect.
In a CRT, on the other hand, the uncertainty is kept largely minimal:
1) The initial velocity (including direction) of the ejected electron is within certain reasonable bounds.
2) The initial position of the ejected electron is within very small bounds.
3) By using an electromagnetic "funnel", the final position of the electron can be ensured to within tight bounds, regardless of reasonable variations in the velocity.
You can imagine how a magnifying glass can bring light from many different points on the sun to a very, very small point on a piece of paper. You could make that point arbitrarily small, if you like, but the smaller you make it, the less you know about where the light will go after it passes through the hole in the paper. You know, for example, that all the light from the sun striking the (large) magnifying glass will end up at that one single point -- this is because you know exactly the momentum of each photon (as the sun is very far away)! but light from that one (small) single point (if it keeps going) could end up anywhere in a very large region - this is basically because of an uncertainty in the momentum.
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Thus the "funneling" of the CRT takes advantage of the very sure initial position of the electron to ensure almost as well that the electron ends up at the proper final position. What is lost, however, is information about momentum. Electrons leaving one way or another will be guided by the electromagnetic field to land at the same point. But we don't care about that!